Dirty Version

What is the best way to start sucking his cock? The start of a good blowjob has to be good, otherwise is really won't be good head. How you initiate an oral encounter with his cock can sometimes be the most memorable part of the blowjob.

 

Start Sucking His Cock before He is in Your Mouth

Just like good sex, good head is much more than just physical stimulation of his cock. Good head plays with his fantasies, his desires, fears, memories, instincts, so before you even start touching his cock, get inside his head and start your blowjob by arousing him mentally.

One of the easiest ways to turn a guy on is to let him know you want to suck his cock. Not just that he is going to get a blowjob, but that you want his hard, delicious cock inside your mouth. If you can communicate this to him he will be fantasising about what you are going to do to him, effectively arousing himself! Try it when you are somewhere where you can't give him a blowjob - at a restaurant. Whisper to him that you want his cock, then take a sip from a straw letting him know you are imagining the straw is him, or take a spoonful of dessert and looking directly at him lick and suck the spoon clean.

Or text-message him. Email him. Make him lunch and leave a note in his lunch-box. Eat a popsicle in front of him in a sexy manner, all the while fucking him with your eyes and staring at his crotch (and maybe even touching yourself, which is even better because this shows him you are turned on by the thought of his cock in your mouth).

 

How to Really Get Started Sucking His Cock

Sometimes you get a bit self conscious, but don't. However you move, however you look, whatever you say, as long as you are confident and are showing him how much you love sucking his cock and want to give him head right now, he will love it.

 

The Long Way

When giving your lover head, you don't have to go straight for his cock (but sometimes it's a good thing!). Guys do have more than one erogenous zone! A great way to start a blowjob is with a kiss. Kiss his lips, kiss him deep and sensuously, then stop and look at him with a twinkle in your eye and kiss his chin, then his neck, collarbone, and so on in a straight line down to his cock. This is great because he will figure out where you are going pretty quickly, but there is a short period of sweet anticipation until you get there.

 

Using Everything You've Got

Guys have a few different erogenous zones - actually anywhere there is skin you can pleasure him, but there are a few places that are more sensually erogenous, more sexually arousing. A good rule is that if there is somewhere that feels good for you, it probably feels good for him too. So neck, ears, nipples and chest, all around his crotch, thighs, and more - these are all places you can stimulate him with licking, kissing, soft massaging touch or light grazing caresses.

When stimulating his erogenous zones in warming him up for the great head he is about to receive, you can use more than just your lips and hands. Your breasts and nipples are very sexy ways to caress his body. Use your ass too, or your hair, even rubbing your pussy on him can be a turn on. When it comes to grinding your pussy against him, usually riding his leg to show him how turned on you are to be about to suck his cock is good, or sandwiching his cock between your pussy and his body and sliding up and down the length is super sexy - just don't forget that you are warming him up for a blowjob!

 

Going Straight for His Cock

If you have spent some time mentally teasing him then he may already be hard and may already be ready for the blowjob to begin. It's fine to just go straight to his cock - in fact he will probably love that you are so eager to get his cock, him manhood into your mouth! Going straight for his cock can be quite a turn on - just get down on your knees (or get into another position good for worshipping his phallic member), unzip him and roughly pull his pants and underwear down, enjoy the way his cock bounces out when released from the underwear and show him your happiness at seeing his hard cock with a smile, admire his cock for a brief second then pounce on him!

 

Which Part of His Cock Should I Suck First?

If you are going straight for his cock then you can just take him cock-head first into your mouth and start sucking him deeply. Another great place for the first lick is where his balls and shaft meet - go straight to the base of his shaft and hungrily suck and lick your way up to the head.

To make it look really good from his perspective, get directly below his cock, look up at him and lick up from the bottom of his cock or just start at the head. At the head, poke your tongue out as far as you can and rest his cock-head on your tongue. Then as you pull your tongue back into your mouth, pull his cock into your mouth at the same time. Doing this without the help of your hands is a really good show-off move!

So he is warmed up, you have him before you and you have just taken his delicious, hard, warm cock into your mouth. Now what?