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How to get Your Wife to Give You a Blowjob

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How to get Your Wife to Give You a Blowjob

It's no secret that guys love getting head and there are a lot of guys that want to know how to get their wife or girlfriend to give them a blowjob (or more blowjobs). The problem is you wife or girlfriend doesn't want to give you head as often as you want it and this may be a small discrepancy or a gaping chasm in what you feel is missing. But you love this woman and realise that she isn't there just to suck your joystick.

And some women have a hard time giving head. Some do love it but most only enjoy it occasionally and some for various reasons dislike the idea of sucking on a penis. But let's look at why and perhaps see if you can get your wife to give you a blowjob more often.

The only way you can get your wife or girlfriend to give you more blowjobs is to make it an enjoyable experience for her so that it is something she will want to do again. So, how can you make it enjoyable for her? Here are some things you can do before the blowjob, during, and after to make it so. Here I will assume you are having sex regularly, but aren't getting any oral sex. If you aren't having sex at all with your wife or girlfriend, that is another issue. Again, this advice is for those who already have a sexual relationship but it lacks the oral sex element.

 

Before the Blowjob

When you are alone and perhaps about to get sexy, try asking her if she wants to do it for you. When you ask her, you need to respect her answer. She may not want to or she may not want to today. If she says no, then don't ask again for a few days. The next time you talk about it, try asking her really nicely and without accusation why she doesn't want to and ask her if there is anything you can do to make it easier for her to give you a blowjob.

There are a lot of reasons why she might not want to do it. She may be too busy and too tired to be lavishing that kind of attention on you when sex is an easier way for both of you to get off at the same time (which I'm sure we can all understand if she is working and you are both raising a family, or for any other reason). She may not like the idea of penis and mouth contact, or she may have had a bad experience that put her off giving head (which she may or may not want to talk about, and don't ask), or it may be something else entirely.

Try to take her answer pragmatically and not as an attack on you. If you can find out the reason, you may be able to find a way to help remove the problem. If the problem is she is too busy and she is usually the dishwasher then see if she would be open to the idea of trading you washing the dishes for a blowjob, or some similar 'just before bed' chore that gives her a moment of free time to relax and get ready. How many times you have to wash the dishes for a blowjob depends on you two. Even then, when it comes to blowjob time, accept it gracefully. And remember, if she enjoys it when she gives you the blowjob, she may want to do it again so rather than just taking the blowjob as your due, make it part of a fun and mutually fulfilling sex session.

If it is just the idea of penis and mouth contact she doesn't like, don't expect her to give you full on head straight away. Maybe just introduce her to the idea that your penis is ok, slowly. Let her hold it and see it. Next time ask her to kiss it. Slowly let her work her way up to it as she feels comfortable. Be patient. If it is a bad experience that caused her to not enjoy the idea of giving head, again you will need to be patient and be the model blowjob recipient - never force her head down, don't thrust into her mouth, let her start and stop as she needs to.

 

During the Blowjob

Your wife doesn't like giving you head as often as you want. But to make it more likely you get more head, you are trying to make the experience of giving you head more enjoyable for your wife. Here are a few things you can try during the blowjob to make it better for her.

The most common complaint women have about giving head is the taste, so keep yourself clean. Especially if you are intending to ask for a blowjob or are expecting a blowjob, make sure you have just showered or washed yourself off with soap and water and a cloth in the basin. Here are some more tips for guys about what women don't like about giving head and what women do like about giving head. Read these to give you some more ideas on how to make giving a blowjob a better experience for her.

Another thing you can do to make giving you a blowjob better for her is to get her turned on before she starts. If she is turned on then she will likely enjoy the sexual act of fellatio much more and it will indeed be more sexual for her and less of a chore. You can do this by cuddling and kissing before-hand, touching and all those other tricks of seduction you already know about but perhaps haven't taken the time to employ lately. Taking a shower together beforehand is an especially nice way to warm up and this way she will really know your penis is clean and ready to go down on.

If you don't have one already, get one! It's a vibrator. If you can't get her off with your fingers or mouth, take the lazy way out and use a vibrator on her clit to bring her to orgasm before you let her start. Or even better, have her lie down and every time she does something that feels really good, put the vibe on her clit (if she likes that direct contact). Move away if she slows down but when you start to feel really good, bring it closer to her clit (or where ever she really likes it).

 

After the Blowjob

If you want your wife or girlfriend to give you head more often, make it something she wants to do. When you take too long to come, it becomes less enjoyable so if you can't come relatively quickly (10 minutes is a long time for a lot of women) then tell her thank you and ask if she want a turn (i.e. go down on her). Once you have made her come (or been softly swirling your tongue the way she loves it for at least as long as she was doing for you), get your nut off by fucking her. After that oral you just gave her she will be ready for a good hard session. This will definitely make her see the benefit of giving you head. If you make it a more-than-reciprocal event then she will start to love giving you head!

Or if you reach climax, you probably are not ready to continue with much else in the way of sexual activity so rest. Cuddle with her if you both want to show her your love and unspoken appreciation for the selfless act of love she made to you. But don't let it end there. Show her your affection in the days afterwards too. Ask her if you can return the favour when you are in the state of mind to. Most men lose their interest in sex for a short while directly after orgasm and women feel that. But coming back a few hours or a day or so later to do something in a similarly selfless way for her, whether it be sexual or not to show your appreciation is another way to show your enjoyment and appreciation, which is the part of giving you head that she can enjoy. If you feel more loving towards her afterwards, show her with a little more physical affection (if this is something she might like). Hugs and kisses at random moments of privacy are a wonderful way to show your affection.


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