A common complaint from those of us who suck dick is a stinky one. And you can guess that if it's smelly, it probably doesn't taste too good either. But if you're ready to suck it, you're also in the right to request a quick wash up. And because you should always expect a clean penis, he in turn should always expect a clean pussy. So here's what I'm saying: be prepared and keep your pussy presentable!

Expect Reciprocity

A healthy and satisfying sex life is about balance. So give head and be prepared to receive it too.

On a special occasion, you might give your partner a blowjob where that's the only sexual act that happens. It the "treat him like a king" blowjob. The one sided, special occasion blowjobs that I talk about in the blowjob guide. The thing is, most of the time, blowjobs are generally just a part of sex.

And just as blowjob are a part of sex, so is getting your pussy eaten. As a part of great sex, the cock should get some lip service and the pussy should get a good tonguing.

It's only fair to both of you that if you're giving head, he's giving head too. Expect that he will want to give you the same pleasure you're giving him. So keep that pussy ready for cunnilingus because you should expect it too.

Treat Others How You'd Like to Be Treated

If you're not keeping your pussy in a state fit for consumption, you're not being fair. To yourself and to your partner.

It's fair to expect a clean dick. So it's fair that he encounters a clean pussy. And because of the expectation for reciprocation, if you're going to give a blowjob, you should be sure your pussy is in an edible, lickable, suckable state. It's all about treating him the same way you expect him to treat you.

Don't Be Selfish

You may think, "Hey, I don't need cunnilingus." Well, that's what a friend told me his girlfriend said to him, and is actually the inspiration for this article. That's just a terrible attitude, in my book.

You may think that a lot of blowjobs is all you need to keep your man (or a marriage) happy. While it sounds good in theory, it's a relationship strategy doomed to unhappiness.

Why? Because women need sex and orgasms too! And all the attention that goes along with getting orgasms. It takes loving attention to make a woman come. A sexually satisfied woman, in my opinion, is one whose husband really cares for her. You can't consistently satisfy a woman without true care. But she has to participate too.

If you opt out of orgasms, if you think merely giving is the key to sexual happiness, let me educate you. A man feels so much better when he knows he's sexually satisfying his wife. There is joy in giving. That's the beauty of blowjobs and oral sex in general. It's selfless. If you don't give your partner the opportunity to experience that sense of giving, you are being a strange kind of selfish. And you need to have or develop the self-esteem and confidence to realize you deserve that kind of focused attention too.

Which is why I say, simply giving head is not enough. Keep your pussy clean and ready to receive oral, the same we he should be clean for you. Give, and receive! Give your partner head and expect the favor to be returned. It's the road to a happy life!