At the end of a blowjob comes the climax. It is a climax in the sense of his orgasm. It is also a climax in the sense that the level of pleasure is reaching the peak, the performance is in its last act. Imagine the end of an orchestral performance or fireworks, where the end is always the most intense part and afterwards there is the silence. When coming to the end of a blowjob, aspire to these crescendos.

Cum

No guide to sucking cock is complete without talking about cum. Swallowing seems to be of particular concern to many. If you suck his cock to climax, then you probably will end up with a mouth full of cum. You don't have to, but if you don't pull him out of your mouth then that's where it's going to go!

Cum doesn't taste like strawberries and candy and that is a shame. Although there is a lot of advice out there that suggests you can change the flavour of cum, it's still going to be cum. Saying that, sometimes it can be better than others. The most important thing guys can do to make their cum not so bad is drink lots of water, stay fit and eat healthy. Some suggest pineapple juice or strawberries to make it taste like pineapples or strawberries but the main thing is just to keep your body clean and fresh with healthy living so your cum is also clean and fresh.

How to Make Him Come

If you are giving your guy oral sex, it will feel good. But sometimes, getting him to come is a challenge. There are a few things that can make it harder for him to come from a blowjob:

  1. If he masturbates a lot he mind find it more difficult to come from someone else's ministrations.
  2. If he is under a lot of stress.
  3. If he feels pressure to come, it will be harder to relax and the orgasm will be elusive.
  4. If he is used to coming from sex or manually, it may be harder for him to come without thrusting - thrusting can make guys come faster.

So, to make it easier for yourself, see if he can hold off on the self-pleasure. Especially if you have something planned for the weekend, no touching from Wednesday will make it so much better for him and a bit easier for you.

Stress is something hard to combat, but if you can help him relax before a blowjob it will make the blowjob better and the climax easier to reach.

Similarly, if your man feels pressured to come, it's the same as stress and it will make it even harder to get there. "Hurry up and come!" doesn't work. Guys, like girls, can't orgasm on command. "Give me your cum! I want it, come in my mouth!" can work better because it is sexy and expresses your desire rather than you exasperation.

During sex, guys thrust and this is natural and it is part of what they are built to enjoy. If you are finding it hard to get him to orgasm, and you are ok with it, try a little face-fucking. He will hold your head and thrust into your mouth rather than you doing all the moving. Keep a fist wrapped around his shaft to stop him going to deep or if you can, let him into your throat. Again, starting off with some dirty talk works wonders - "I want your cum baby, I want you to fuck my mouth." will get him nice and worked up. 

 

Just as there are some things that make it harder for him to come, there are some things that can make it easier:

  1. Varying what you are doing will bring him to the edge faster than doing the same thing. In fact, if you were to bob up and down with no variety you would probably go all day and he wouldn't come. Vary speed, pressure, sensation and it will get him there faster.
  2. Use your hands. Pleasure his balls, stroke his shaft, pinch his nipples or even anal stimulation - all this can help bring him to orgasm. The most important is probably your hand on his cock. Mouth and hand moving together are so important.

And then, when you realise he is getting close, don't stop! Keep doing what you are doing; maybe even go a little faster. Or if he is telling you something, do that.

 

What to do During His Orgasm

Right when he starts coming and you have his cock in your mouth it can be overwhelming. Suddenly some gooey, warm, slimy, salty stuff is shooting into your mouth. You may be shocked and just want to stop like a deer in headlights and wait till it's over. NO! If you want to make him come like he never has then keep moving! Don't worry if some cum spills out of your mouth - that's not a bad thing. You are his slut - so be a dirty one!

As he is shooting come into your mouth, keep your tongue up against his shaft and move up and down so your tongue is stroking over his head. Think about what happens when a guy comes during sex. He often starts thrusting a bit faster just prior to orgasm, then just as he starts shooting he will give one deep thrust (a natural instinct to make sure the baby making juice goes right up there). Then he will often make spasmodic thrusts through the orgasm. This is to trigger more powerful spasms to shoot more cum out. And the more powerful the spasm, the more powerful the orgasm. So while he is coming in your mouth, be sure to trigger more powerful orgasm-spasms by stroking over the more sensitive underside of the head with your tongue.

 

After His Orgasm

When the orgasm is over you can slow down. If you haven't already, swallow all that come or let it spill out of your mouth or just hold it there. Look up with a smile. The smile is important. It shows you are so happy to have been part of his orgasm, that you enjoyed the blowjob and that he should feel good and happy to have shared it with you.

If you want to spit the cum into a tissue, do it quickly and try to make it something aside from the blowjob. You should never feel pressured to swallow but here are the things to be careful about when spitting:

  1. Don't make it a big scene - try to maintain a calm demeanour and atmosphere.
  2. Don't make funny faces.
  3. Don't run away.

After you spit the cum into a tissue, don't run away. This is important because you just brought him to an amazing orgasm. Stay and bask in the after orgasm together. Running to the bathroom and suddenly disconnecting from the intimate togetherness of the moment can ruin the feeling. Stay with him a minute until the orgasm and after orgasm moments have passed.

After you spit you may even want to take his cock back into your mouth just to give him the last feeling of soft wet warmth that his cock loves so much. 

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