What Women Like about Giving Head

Communicating Your Enjoyment of the Blowjob

One of the main things that your lover may enjoy about giving you head is the pleasure it gives you. So you have taken care of your grooming, your cock and balls (and anus) are nice and clean. When you are in the middle of getting head from the woman you love, don't just leave her alone to guess what feels good for you. She can't read your mind and you can't just will her to suck you balls when you want you balls sucked and expect it to happen. You have to speak. And moan. And groan.

If your lover is giving you head, it is for one reason - to give you pleasure. Often they take enjoyment in seeing and hearing your pleasure (in fact there is nothing less satisfying that giving head to absolutely no response) so let her see and hear it. Let her see the smile of enjoyment (or whatever your "oh fuck yessssssss baby that's sooooo goooood" face is) and let her hear your sounds of pleasure.

 

Giving Instructions or Making Requests

I mentioned speaking above. Speaking can be paying homage to the pleasure she is giving you by saying her name and all those sexy nicknames you use as she sucks up and down your hard cock, but it can also be to give a few pointers or make a few requests. Women do enjoy when you make requests. Maybe not too often, but as I have said, your lover is not a mind reader and if there is something else that can make it better, she wants to know what it is! She wants to know the secret little places that you want licked, nibbled, pressed, rubbed and sucked because she wants YOU to feel amazing. But YOU need to communicate all those things too her.

Don't be afraid to ask her to suck your balls (or whatever), she will likely be glad to. If she is down there it is because she wants to give you amazing head and a request or two can be sexy. But like Eddie Murphy says - you have to say it like a man. No stammering and stuttering. Just spit it out, don't be ashamed! "Suck my balls too honey" is perfectly OK. No "Do you mind...", no "Would it be ok, tonight, if you...". Be a man.

The only exception is analingus - asking her to suck your balls, lick a certain part of your cock, to keep doing that, or to use her hand here is all fine. Asking her out of nowhere to lick your asshole might be a bit much if she has never done this. So if you want her to head even further south while she is giving you head, check if she is ok with you asking for it before you ask for it. And be damn sure you are very clean. Wash thoroughly and make sure you haven't been to the toilet between the shower and the blowjob.

 

So requests are ok and unless you know what you are talking about from experience, don’t try to be her coach. And you also want to communicate your enjoyment. This feedback as to what feels good is important to let her know what you like because how else will she know? Also, it is really good to hear how much pleasure you are giving your lover - and when she knows how much you enjoy it, she will enjoy doing it.

Moan, groan, breathe, curse, pray or just whisper "Yes, yes, yes" over and over again, anything to show her you are enjoying what she is doing. If what she is doing isn't working for you, ask her to do something else. She won't mind, unless you start to get annoying. Don't hover over her shoulder - this will make her nervous, just give positive feedback when it feels good and an occasional request when you need to.

 

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