Your Blowjob Questions Answered

Question

How can I make him cum? It takes him a long time to cum from a BJ.

Answer

When a blowjob starts to take a long time, there can be a few negative things that happen. You can start to get tired and get a sore jaw. That is bad because it's hard to enjoy sucking his cock if you are in pain. And if he notices that you are uncomfortable he can start to get a bit self conscious that he is taking too long to come and become concerned about you. That is bad because his worry and self consciousness will make an orgasm harder to reach. So knowing this, it is important to make sure you are comfortable and that he doesn't worry about your comfort.

To increase your comfort and at the same time, his pleasure, be sure to have some variety in your blowjob. These basic blowjob tips talk a little about ways to add variety (as well as the basic things every good blowjob needs). These will help you in your quest to get him to come!

I like to point out that for guys who jack-off a lot, it will be hard to come from a blowjob. If your guy is a younger man, then chances are he is in this group. Jacking off a lot gets him used to that kind of stimulation and so the softer sensations of head (while still feeling amazing for him) can't bring him to the peak.

Another point is that guy's are used to active orgasms (ie. they are the thrusting partner, or they are pumping their fist). A blowjob is passive pleasure and it can take practice for guys to get used to coming like that. So practice is good for you and for him!

But here are some quick tips to help you get him to come.

  1. No more jacking off - If you only see your guy on the weekend, on Wednesday, send him a sexy text/email asking him not to touch himself till you see him. Ask him to save his come/orgasms for you and tell him that if he can keep his hands of his cock you will give him the best head ever!
  2. Start slow - Start off softly tonguing and kissing his cock and balls. Work your way up from slow and soft to hard and fast, but work up to it slowly!
  3. Add variety - Don't do the same thing for too long (it starts to become ineffective). So if you feel like you have been doing something and it's getting nowhere, do something else. Mouth to hand, cock to balls, hot to cool. Whatever you are doing, doing the opposite for a few seconds revitalises the nerves!
  4. Use your hand - Use your mouth for sucking and licking. Use your hand for stroking. Together, alternately, however you want.

But don't worry if he takes a long time to come. As long as you are both enjoying it then that is the important part. Sex doesn't have to be quick! Personally, if I get too tired when giving head, I like to switch roles and let him do me for a while then I usually get so turned on I have to tell him it's his turn again.

 

Comments (1)
1Thursday, 02 May 2013 15:31
Jack Hammer
Thanks you for this. I find it difficult to achieve an orgasm when my girlfriend goes down on me. At least I know what to do to prevent this from now on

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