Question

What do you do if he cums in your mouth during the blow job?

Answer

Ahh, the age old spit or swallow question. I will assume you mean to ask about the appropriate decorum for dealing with the semen that has just been deposited in your mouth upon bringing your partner to climax, rather than anything else...

You can also read about this in the blowjob guide chapter on how to finish a blowjob.

But to expound: there are two options. Either it goes down or it goes out.

If you go with down, then the best bet is just to swallow it as quickly as possible. If you decide you like it, take a little longer next time, play with it if you want. Show him how much is in your mouth before you swallow it. Some guys like this, others may think it's a little gratuitous.

The benefit of swallowing is most guys like it when you swallow their cum. There is no actual physical pleasure in it for them, but a lot will admit to a psychological kind of pleasure - call it happiness, to having the blowjob end in their cum disappearing down their lovers throat.

If you go with the out option - a.k.a. spitting, then again the best bet is to do it as quickly as possible. After he has come in your mouth, grab a towel or a bunch of tissues you have nearby and spit the cum into them. You will still have the taste in your mouth but try to ignore it.

You have just spit out the cum, and that act shows disgust - and you could see how a guy might find that reflects on him and feel a little sad about that. A really great way to remove that rejection is to take his cock one more time into your mouth so he can feel that wonderful warm, wet feeling as his orgasm dies away. No more sad guy.

Spit or swallow - it's really up to you.

 

Add comment

Comments (4)

  • Barry

    While swallowing v. spitting is really a matter of....eh um....taste. Swallowing can be a wonderful experience. Just get used to the taste and it is simple. I used to seperate the wonderful taste of a cock in my mouth and the wonderful taste of his cum sliding down my throat. Now, I see it all as part of a wonderful process.

  • jacksl

    I think it is very disrespectful to spit it out. I am a man and know men don't like to see that. It is also important to leave his penis as clean as possible

  • Bri

    I've only giving a blow job twice to the same guy. He keeps mentioning that he has to hold him self from busting because he's scared to see how I react. In honesty, I know it will eventually happen..I'm just scared to gag or make a mess. Comment me some more advice please because I have not experienced him busting yet.

  • Hi Bri,
    If you gag or make a mess, don't worry. It's just a natural reaction. The best way to deal with that reaction is just to explain what happened and share the experience with him.
    Also, if there is a mess, you should just know that that is so completely not a problem. A sex mess is considered by many to be a good thing.
    Good luck.