Blowjob Guide - Attitude and Enthusiasm
Blowjob and Attitude
If you want to learn how to give a blowjob then you probably want to know how to give a really good blowjob. In that case, the most important thing you need to know, if you take only one thing away from this how to give head tutorial, let it be this: LOVE AND ENJOY IT!!
If you read the previous three chapters, you might have noticed a lot of "loving his cock" instead of "sucking his dick". That's because attitude is the main difference between a blowjob and a mind blowing blowjob. So love his cock! Love sucking it! Love licking it! Love his balls! Love it when he comes! It sounds crude, but if you want to know how to give an amazing blowjob, the secret is you have to be a cock loving slut (or at least have fun pretending to be one).
Enjoy Blowjobs by Being Good
It is so important it must be said again – Love Sucking His Cock! When you give good head to a guy, you are enjoying it. You can’t expect him to enjoy it if you don't enjoy giving head. If you don’t like it then ask yourself "why not?". It is a gift of pleasure you are giving him, if nothing else, enjoy that side of it. Like most things, if you go in with a positive attitude, it will be easier and you will enjoy it more.
It is easy; you are good at it; you enjoy giving head. Think of these three things as the legs of the three legged blowjob stool. Remove one leg, and the stool falls over. And since most people enjoy easy things they are good at, practice can make a blowjob more enjoyable.
If you just don't like giving head: try to find out why. If it's something that can be changed, talking about it with him is a good idea. If you are here, you must want to give him head, so if you both can find a way to make it better for you, it will be better for him. And he will love the idea of finding a way to make it better for you to give him head! See some solutions to common blowjob complaints.
Expressive Blowjob Attitude
Blowjob Eyes
Remember to look at him occasionally. This will let you gauge how much he is enjoying your skills and it is also a super sexy blowjob technique. Imagine it now. Imagine his cock in front of you. Look up into his eyes and lick under the head. Take a longer lick up his shaft. Now, still looking at him, take him into your mouth. That is sexy. Watch his jaw drop while you suck the head and move down the shaft, all the while maintaining eye contact. When he's slippery with saliva, really start pouting your lips to show them off to the best visual advantage.
It’s that confident attitude that will knock his socks off. Then to add the cherry on top, close your eyes dreamily and lose yourself in the pleasure of sucking his cock, as you don’t want to be staring at him the whole time.
Think about this: when you talk to someone, it is important to look them in the eye. Maybe not the whole time, but it is important to maintain eye contact for the most part. Communication is a two way street - we gauge each others responses. We also use more than just our voices. Eye contact is an important example of this, but we also use gestures, touch, facial expressions, body language, and more. Consider that a blowjob is communication between lovers. Obviously this form of communication focuses on touch, but for the best communication, for the best blowjob, employ all your other communication skills too!
Create a Visual
Being confident means showing off, and guys love this. It’s no secret that guys are visually oriented creatures. And that mean guys love to watch you suck their cock. They want to watch your tongue lick up the length of the shaft. They want to watch as you slide the head between your lips (rouge and lip gloss must be mentioned again – play on his visual attraction with freshly glossed lips). Let him see you, his cock, and you enjoying his cock, and everything else. Don’t hide.
Make-up can enhance the visual aspect. Not just lip gloss but also your eyes, and whatever other steps you take when doing your make-up can show you have taken the time and most importantly, that you want him to watch. Sexy!
Show Him You Love It
So you know how to give head? Don’t be shy about it! Show him that you aren’t scared of his penis, in fact you love it! Show him you enjoy giving head (to him) almost as much as he enjoys the blowjob. Show his you love his cock because the secret is, so does he. But let him know you love giving head by letting him see what you are doing. By being enthusiastic. By initiating the blowjob. If you don't love it and let him see that, he won't enjoy it as much and even though he may still ask for a blowjob he is probably wishing you were more like his previous girlfriend who... you know where I'm going with this.
So the basic message is this: from a man's perspective, he doesn't want to see you just giving him a blowjob out of duty, disgusted the whole time. Nothing could be better than the exact opposite of that - you willingly giving him head out of love, and actually enjoying it. So if you are thinking "But I do enjoy it!" then just get creative showing him, with a sexy smile while your mouth is full or with a whispered confession of lust before you start - if he knows you enjoy it, he will be halfway there. If you are thinking "But I don't really like it.." but you are reading this because you want to get better at head, you can still follow that advice - whatever part of giving head or his cock you like, let him know you enjoy that part. Mental stimulation is part of giving head too.
Love It!, Love It!, Love It! - All you need, to know how to give the best head, and the rest will follow.
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