Blowjob Guide - Positions

Comfortable Blowjob Positions

The first thing you need to think about when starting your blowjob is positioning - where are you in relation to him? You need a comfortable blowjob position so it's easy for you, but you don't want to settle in to a blowjob position that makes it less enjoyable for him.

This page details the blowjob positions that are best for giving the best blowjob with a little insight into why they are the best positions. But don't miss out on experimenting and trying new things! Exploring together is fun and fun is good.

After this page, we look at the rest of the who, what, where, when and why's of giving a blowjob. After you understand that you should find the how comes easily enough.

 

Blowjob Position with Him Reclining

Lovers might find themselves in a horizontal position, especially while kissing and hugging on a bed. She will then move down toward his cock, positioning herself between his legs with him lying face up. This is best blowjob position for him to relax while she makes love to his cock with her mouth.

The downside, her hair can obscure the view and he is left staring at the ceiling. Men love to watch a woman sucking on their cock. This is easily fixed with a couple pillows under his head, and a hair-tie.

Sexy Tip - As you are propping some pillows under his head, talk dirty and ask him if he wants to see your lips on his cock. (Especially relevant if your lips are freshly glossed or rouged.) Tease him and smile at him while holding his cock, pout your lips and kiss the head. He may have told you he wants to see your lips wrapped around his cock, but don't give it all to him straight away.

 

Standing or Sitting Blowjob Position

Oral sex can in a way be an act of submission and you can play on the power he feels by making sure he is above you in a sitting or standing blowjob position. If he is standing, he will benefit from the feelings of power and also he can easily watch as your lips slide up and down his cock. Remember that guys love to watch you enjoy their cock.

If you sit him in a chair and give him the royal treatment, he will feel like a true king. Sit him down, let him lean back, come from between his legs (spread them far apart to expose his cock and balls to you) and devour him.

The benefit of the standing position over the sitting position is that he can thrust into your mouth while standing. This may be daunting, but thrusting is the natural male instinct and helps to bring on an orgasm. Keep a slippery wet hand loosely gripped around his shaft for a faux extension to your mouth. (It will also help keep you from gagging.)

 

Important point about the above three positions

In the above three positions, to maximise the pleasure you are giving him, it is better to approach from between his legs, or below. In particular, with him reclining it is possible to come from a 69 or head to tail position. The 69 is wonderful, no argument, but when you consider the location of the most sensitive spot on his cock - the underside of the head of his penis in relation to the most agile part of your mouth - your tongue, then to align them for the most contact, the best blowjob position is one where you are approaching from his feet, face to face and slide down.

These blowjob positions also allow for seductive eye contact. Looking up with a smile in your eyes communicates your enjoyment to him and that is very important. If it is fun for you and you enjoy the blowjob, so will he.

They also allow him the best view because in these positions your body is not in the way. He has an unrestricted view and he will love it!

 

If you just want the most comfortable blowjob position because "Hey, he will still love it!", try the 69 or the non-straddling version where you just sit to the side but still facing his feet. This position may be more comfortable because you won't have to crane your neck over so much to accommodate his upward pointing erection.

 

Whatever blowjob position you end up in, the most important thing is that you both are having fun. If you are in a comfortable position you will be better able to offer the ultimate pleasure of the blowjob to your lover. But be sure he is comfortable too as this is a time to focus on his pleasure, right!

For the best blowjob positions for deepthroat, read how to deepthroat on the Deepthroat page. For other blowjob positions to try for the fun of it (fun is good!), see these fun blowjob positions.

 

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