Blowjob Guide - How to Finish

How to Finish a Blowjob

So you have employed the basic techniques set out on the previous page. You have been lavishing him and his cock with warm, wet and enthusiastic attention. He is moaning and holding your head as you slide up and down his cock. He is involuntarily thrusting into your mouth and you can tell he is getting close. He is going to come.

If you want to know a particular technique that can make your man come to orgasm, it is merely what you have read up to this point. There is nothing you need to change up to the point of orgasm. If he wants you do to something, he might tell you. Mainly you can expect “Keep going! Keep going!”. He may want you to go a little faster (also using your hand here can help). He may start thrusting (again the hands helps to keep his thrusting in check). The important point is listen to his requests and try not to stop what you are doing – KEEP GOING!

 

His Come

At this point, some women might get a little apprehensive about the man’s ejaculate. His penis is in your mouth so naturally when he comes, it will flow into your mouth too.

What He Wants - If your man is the same as many, he probably likes a blowjob to finish with his cock still in your mouth. He doesn't want to leave that nice warm wet happy place. Also, many men would like you to swallow their come. They feel it completes the blowjob.

Other men like to pull out and either with their own hand or with you doing it for them, jerk off untill they shoot their come on you. Generally they want to shoot on your face or breasts.

And The Reality - The reality is it is up to you. You have to do what you are comfortable with and most importantly what you enjoy! Sex should be fun, and when you are giving a blowjob, he is going to be enjoying it the most when you are enjoying it too. So no matter what he wants, if you aren't enjoying it, it won't be what he wants.

The important thing is to find what you are both going to enjoy. If you are happy enough to take his come in your mouth, then let him know. If you are worried about it, let him know too. Tell him if you don't want his come in your mouth. It will ruin the blowjob if you let him come in your mouth and you don't want it, because not only will he see the disgust on your face, but also it will ruin the experience for you too.

Most men may prefer a blowjob that ends with the girl happily taking a mouthful of the manly essence of their virility and swallowing it like some delicious magic potion; but at the same time, most men who are with a woman they love who doesn't like to swallow their semen have no desire to see her do what she doesn't want to do.

 

Swallow?

It's up to you. If you want to, then it is very unlikely your man will be unhappy at that fact.

If you don't want to swallow, but don't mind him coming in your mouth then kind of spitting it out around his cock as he is coming can be dirty-sexy. As he is coming, just let the come spill back out of your mouth (and push it out with your tongue) so it spills out (rather than actually spitting it out) and will drool down your chin or back down his cock, depending on your position.

Alternatively collect it in your mouth then as lady-like as can be, spit it into some tissues. Tissues are better than running out to the bathroom to spit it out, because it is kind of rude to run out just after your lover has had a wonderful orgasm at your hand, so to speak. Stay there with him as you both bask in the aftermath of an amazing blowjob.

And if you don't want him to come in your mouth, then be sure he knows. It can be fun to let him come on you, so you can still feel the effect of your loving ministrations, or you can finish up watching him come on his own belly - also fun. Lay a towel on his belly first for an easy clean up.

 

Reaction to His Orgasm

So you have brought him to an orgasm. He has just had an amazing blowjob and is still there twitching with aftershocks. There is come dripping down your breasts (or whatever the scenario is) and you are glad it is finally over. WHAT!?

This might be the case, but hang in there for just one more minute! You have just brought him to orgasm. It is a lovers gift. Don't treat it like a chore you are glad to be done with. Rather, give him a smile and let the fun last a little longer. Sex to adults is like "playing" to kids, and you both just had fun playing, so be happy about that. Try to show him you enjoyed his orgasm, because it was something fun you both did together.

 

 

Don’t Leave Early

Even after the come stops coming out, he will still be coming down from his high, or recovering from that orgasm, so be there with him for that. Maybe even keep holding his cock, playing with his balls, or just stroking his chest or thigh. If you still have him in your mouth, keep sucking gently. Approaching his orgasm it is good to maintain the same pace and pressure, and maybe through it he might want you to keep going but after an orgasm, men's penis's become super sensitive. It can be almost painful with too much attention, so slow, soft, wet and warm is what he needs now. Keep going till he asks you to stop.

The blowjob may be coming to an end, but the loving attention need not be over so soon. If you are in bed, snuggle up and let him hold you as you both lie there for a bit, recovering from a truly amazing blowjob.

 

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