Blowjob Tips

Blowjob Tips to Perfect Your Head Technique

Here are a variety of blowjob tips for you to use while you are giving you man a sensuous blowjob. These blowjob tips are the essentials to a great blowjob. Try them out to see what works for you, as every blowjob is a learning step towards a better blowjob.

 

Important Blowjob Tips for Every Blowjob

  • Enthusiasm. This is the most important blowjob tip and is nothing new to the message BlowjobHow promotes - Love It and Enjoy It!! If you enjoy it and are enthusiastic and he sees that, that alone will make you an amazing lover in his eyes. Also if you enjoy it, that enthusiasm will lead you to discover your own personal blowjob tips and tricks that work just for you and him.
  • Variety. After enthusiasm for giving him head, this is probably the next most important blowjob tip. A change in the sensations allows you to refocus on the stimulation. Repetition is numbing. Doing the same thing the whole time you are giving him head will not work, it will not feel good for him and it will not feel good for you - think lock jaw. And it will be boring for both of you. So do something he is loving for a while but switch to something else before it gets boring.
    • If you are sucking and bobbing up and down for a while and notice you or he is becoming less enthused, take him out of your mouth and try licking instead of sucking. Or take a moment to just stroke him with your hand.
    • Don't use the same hand the whole time. A good grip and stroke does work, but change to a softer stroking for a while to allow the nerves to re-awaken. When you go back to a stronger grip, it feels better than before.
    • From softly sucking his cock, with a hand resting over the top of his cock, pull it slightly down so it is pointing straight out at 90 degrees then very carefully, torturously rake your nails up the underside of his shaft. Then when you go back to warm, wet and sensuously soft it will feel so good again!
    • Vary the temperature from a warm mouth to cooler by blowing on his cock or by inhaling through your mouth while it is still full of him!
    • Especially relevant to stroking his cock, speed variation can feel amazing for him. Guys like their cocks stroked hard and fast, but too much can be a bad thing so you need to stroke hard and fast then do a few slower strokes. Same applies to sucking. Suck short, shallow and speedily then switch to a long deep suck. Or suck is cock lovingly, as deep and slow as you can then slide a hand up from the base and stroke hard and fast for a few seconds before going back to the deep suck.
  • Wet and slippery is good. Try to get it wet from the start with saliva (or flavoured lubes). Keep it wet. While you are sucking on him, don't feel the need to swallow the saliva that builds up in your mouth. Let it drain out of your mouth to lubricate the rest of his shaft.

  • His balls. Don't be afraid to give his balls some attention. Specifically it is the scrotum that enjoys the sensation your mouth will bring. Squeezing his testes themselves will bring pain. There are also tupes within his scrotum going from his testes further up into his body. Pressure to these tubes also will cause tremendous pain.

  • Use your hands. While he is in your mouth, a common and very effective blowjob trick is to use your hand to stroke up and down the shaft in time with your mouth. At the same time your other hand can be stroking his balls, thighs, belly, chest, anywhere.

Comments (6)
6Sunday, 23 June 2013 20:13
Barry
Alle, thanks for the good advice. I think enthusiasm, variety and wetness are huge. Every blowjob I have performed, I've tried to keep these three things in mind and it seems to work very well.
5Friday, 07 June 2013 06:46
Hey Janus, thanks for you comment. I am the one who writes this. Am a little bummed to hear you think what I have written is black and white. I try to be aware and explain the grey details as often as possible but sometimes, writing about every possible reaction or possiblity is difficult and becomes very lengthy!

However, I have to say, in the context I have presented it, repetition is numbing. To quote the text above:
"Repetition is numbing. Doing the same thing for the whole time you are giving him head will not work..."
When I wrote this I was imagining someone giving head without using any techniques other than the up and down bobbing. No hand, no licking, nothing but bobbing. That will make any cock numb as well as your jaw!

Anyway, thanks again for your comment - I especially agree with the last part that fancy techniques are very little to do with giving great head. It is all about being into what you are doing, enjoying it and having fun.
4Friday, 31 May 2013 02:54
Janus
who writes this? really bad black & white.

Repetition is numbing.? Wrong!
Not always. there are so many variables, & when the situation is right, repetition is everything & can lead to extreme build up & climax. The slower you go with repetition alot of the times better. The faster the more likely the numbing.

Alot of the times simple is best, being horny is the work force for extreme pleasure not fancy techniques.
3Thursday, 07 March 2013 17:21
andrea
my man also likes a little nibbling
2Saturday, 26 January 2013 19:25
Roger
I used these tips on myself, so fun :p
1Tuesday, 31 May 2011 10:27
Alle
I also like to use my breasts to tease him. Not just against his cock but also let him feel my breasts against his thighs, etc ;-)

And make sure you are stimulating all over his body, that will make the blowjob even better!

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