Extra Blowjob Techniques and Flourishes

Different blowjob techniques can add to the fun of a blowjob but the most important part of giving a blowjob is to love it and enjoy it. Showing him your enjoyment (as opposed to your dissatisfaction or reluctance) allows him to enjoy your gift of love to its fullest extent. That enthusiasm combined with basic blowjob techniques and you have all you need to give a great blowjob. These extra blowjob tips are merely to add a little extra fun and flourish to you skills that already provide supreme pleasure.

A Good Blowjob Gets the Balls

At any point during the blowjob (except when approaching the finale), take a timeout and give his ball’s some attention. This feels great when you use big flat tongued licks and suck them gently into your mouth, as they like to feel the warmth from your mouth. Don’t leave his cock alone though, as this will rapidly undo the work you have done to bring him this far – keep a hand stroking his cock while you slather his balls with your mouth and tongue.

A Good Blowjob with a Helping Hand

Using a hand, or even both, extend the warm, wet, wonderful sensations of your mouth down his whole cock. While you are sucking on the top half (third/quarter) of his cock, let the saliva dribble out of your mouth to lubricate the hand you are using to stroke the rest of his cock.

  • Try moving your hand in concert with your mouth but on a delay. From the top your mouth and hand go down together then the hand continues where the mouth cannot. Once the hand reaches the bottom the mouth goes back up and as you reach the top, then start the upward stroke with the hand. Image your hand is kind of like a yo-yo to your mouth. And keep your tongue busy licking the head, of course focusing on the underside.
  • Or try moving your hand and mouth in opposite directions, but not in a frantic manner or you are liable to punch yourself in the lip. Grip as you stroke your slippery hand down his hard shaft simultaneously strongly sucking upwards on the head of his cock like you are trying to stretch him out. Relax the grip and suction to return to the initial position and repeat.
  • Or even keep your hand stroking up and down the shaft (vary your speed and grip strength) while you just suck on the head. The key is that the oral movement is now all inside your mouth – keep your tongue moving, massaging, stroking, swirling, sliding, and keep the saliva dribbling down to your hand.

Saliva tip for that helping hand – put his cock right to the back of your throat. If you have tried deepthroating you will know about this already but when you get the gag feeling, your mouth produces a very viscous and slippery version of your normal saliva. And it is perfect. Just gag a little and you will see the results. Let that sexy goop slide down his cock and use it as the perfect home-made hand-job lube. (Just don’t forget this is a blowjob!)

Use Your Body

Use your hands, your breasts, your thighs, your feet to titillate his body while you employ your oral blowjob techniques! When your make love, it’s not solely about the vagina and the penis – it’s about each other’s whole body – stroking, licking, kissing, pinching, squeezing, slapping... A good blowjob is the same. It’s not just about cock and mouth. Use your hands to stroke his scrotum, his butt, his thighs, chest, belly.

If he is lying down, let him feel your breasts on his thighs or belly (depending on position). Let him know how horny sucking his powerful cock makes you and straddle then slide your pussy along his leg. Moan around his cock. Use all of your beautiful sexy self to arouse all his senses.

Worship

You are giving your man untold oral pleasure and he loves it. Show him you love it as much as he does – that is you love the blowjob and you love his cock as much as he does.

Stop sucking his cock for a second and just admire it. Just for a second. Look at him and let him see that you think it is truly a beautiful thing. Then lick it slowly from base to tip. Do it again on the other side. Put your mouth on the side and suck it as if you were doing scales on a harmonica. Do anything else you can think of that will give this message, do what comes to you naturally. Then get back to sucking.

Final Word

If you have read this booklet of a website then you will hopefully realise that while the above blowjob techniques can add a little spice, a few new sensations and some fun to a blowjob, the heart and soul of a good blowjob is in the attitude and the love that you show for him and his cock.

So whatever extra blowjob techniques you use, however skilful you do or don’t feel, the main thing to remember is a blowjob is a way to show your lover you love him and just like any other gift, the more effort you put in then the more the recipient will enjoy it.

And to continue the analogy, when giving a gift it is poor form to attach guilt or tell how much it cost, you should only enjoy that the gift makes the other person happy. This holds true for a good blowjob; never let your lover think it is a chore for you or that you don’t enjoy it. If you don't want to, don't do it but when you do, make it easy for him to enjoy it by enjoying it yourself. Remember: Good blowjob techniques are fun and feel good but it is love for him and what you are doing that makes a great blowjob. In fact it makes the best blowjobs!

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