When to Give a Blowjob

Timing your blowjob right may not seem like it can change much - does a guy even care when? Or you may think that of course timing is important - if he's not in the mood then it's a bad time to try giving head.

The truth is, it's a bit of both, and more. When it comes to timing, some caring thought can make your blowjob an act of loving appreciation; some thinking outside the box can show lustful adventurousness. You can give a blowjob anytime, but at the right time a good blowjob becomes an amazing blowjob that he'll never forget.

Timing a Blowjob Right

Blowjob Clock

A well-timed blowjob can make the average extraordinary - just don't set your blowjobs to the clock.

Anytime is a Good Time

For most guys, now is the best time for a blowjob. Unless someone just died which is obvious enough not to need mention.

To exploit this manly ability to appreciate fellatio at almost any time of day or night to your advantage, a surprise blowjob can be a great thrill for him.

After a long day at work, an ideal "welcome home honey" might be him waiting with a bouquet of flowers in hand, dinner on the table and a hot bath waiting. That might be the ideal, for you. For him, an equivalent welcome might be coming home to you taking him by the hand, leading him to the sofa and relieving him of the days stress with a luxurious blowjob.

After you pull his pants down, you can run a hot washcloth lovingly over his cock and balls to wash away the days sweat.

The exact same blowjob given at another time when he may have been expecting it, with the unexpected surprise factor, becomes so much more exciting and something he'll remember for a long time. 

Build It Up

Instead of waiting for the perfect time, create it. While guys love blowjobs and want them "Now, not later!", making them wait is good too. This doesn’t mean not giving them head for a month, it means building the anticipation. Build the anticipation, and his desire grows too.

If you're long distance and he is planning to visit, you both probably already know about anticipation. But whether a week or just a day apart while at work, let him know that morning that you can’t wait till you see him that evening so you can take his cock in your mouth until he comes.

The anticipation will have him half hard all day! And when he does finally get there he will already be halfway ready to come. When you finally get to deliver on your promise, do it the enthusiasm that shows him he wasn't the only one thinking about his dick in your mouth!

Take Your Time

Sex should be savored, never rushed. I think this goes double for oral sex. For women, we generally respond best to a slow, teasing start. For men, the savoring is about not showing him it's something your rushing through.

Never show that you feel any part of the job when giving a blowjob. Never let him see you thinking of it as a chore. Attitude is the most important part of a good blowjob and suffice to say, if you're just trying to get it over with, it's not going to be amazing.

Amazing comes when you take it slow, you enjoy every part of the blowjob and he can enjoy this luxurious gift.

As Part of Sex

Most people start out with oral sex and finish with intercourse. This is the norm because it's good, but it doesn't have to be that way every time - remember that outside the box thinking makes blowjobs very memorable.

Mid-intercourse oral is a very sexy act. Initiating a blowjob when you are in the middle of riding him to your own orgasm can be like saying "Your cock makes me feel so good. I love it so much I need to taste it!" (Bonus points if you say that out loud.)

However it sounds to you, that almost worshipful appreciation of his cock is a very flattering and ego stroking to a guy. You are making him feel like a king! We'll talk more about penis and blowjob psychology later. Timing a quick suck of his cock like this is also a bit kinky which, again, makes for memorable head.

Finishing sex with a blowjob is also a sexy option. It's a chance to let him live out his porn star fanatsy if you're ok with that. I love finishing in missionary for the intimacy, but for dirty sexiness, timing your blowjob at the end of a sex session creates a special scenario making it hard to forget.

Whether he shoots in your mouth, on your face, on your breasts - guys love this porn style ending because they can see it! Men are visual, so feeding his visual sense is a huge turn on. Also, moving to a blowjob when he is about to come shows you want to get up close with his cock and his orgasm - nothing shows you love loving his cock more than that!