Blowjob WarmUp Techniques - How to Start a Blowjob

The best blowjob has to start somewhere, and regardless of blowjob techniques it is important to enjoy what you are doing. So right from the get go, be sure to show your enthusiasm. But maybe you feel a little self-conscious when you initially take him into your mouth. Even though you may feel a little shy, don't try to hide what you are doing. A good blowjob is a good show - he wants to see! Think about what you are doing for him and trying to get yourself turned on will go a long way.

If you feel self-conscious about your blowjob techniques and that first taking him into your mouth, DON'T! Confidence is sexy. If you still aren't sure, try this: Kiss him (on the lips) and take hold of his cock, kneel down and hold his cock gently against his belly as you kiss his belly just to the side of his cock. Move your hand up so that now you are only covering the head and kiss the shaft of penis. Lick it then kiss it with an open mouth that is more of a sucking action. And now the blowjob has begun! Release his cock from his belly so it is easier for him to see then lick and suck your way up to the head and finally take him into your mouth. Try to let him see where your mouth is touching his cock and to really knock his socks off, look up just as you take the head into your mouth for the first time. Whoo!

Before you start - Blowjob for his Mind

You can give a good blowjob without too much foreplay, in fact for some, blowjob is the foreplay. But if you want to give your guy the once in a lifetime blowjob then you need to treat it like it is the main event and warm up to it. Start warming him up for the blowjob not physically, but mentally. Let him know he is in for a treat so that the desire starts building in his mind and body. This is especially effective if you are in two different places, but will be together soon (ie. at work then home).

Set the scene and get him in position. If you want to do it while he is sitting on the couch, then guide him there. Kiss him softly, lustfully and feel him. Tell him you want to feel it in your mouth before you sit him down on the couch. You are alone, but step away from him to lock the door, close the curtains, turn of the TV and radio (maybe put on some mellow music). Let him watch you walk around slowly, making sure everything is perfect. If you see him touching himself, tell him to keep his hands on the cushions.

Do you want to be naked? Do you want him naked? What do you both like?

Don't go straight for his cock. Push his thighs wide so you can see his cock and balls. Stroke his thighs and belly, getting close to his cock and just teasing him. Admire his cock. How much does he want the blowjob to start? Build it up. Let him feel the heat of your breath on his cock or balls, before you only kiss his leg or belly. How much does he want it now?

Or before you even start touching him, while you are sitting right in front of him, take a minute to put on some lip gloss (if you don't have it on already). He's going to be watching his cock going into your mouth, so shiny glossy lips make it super sexy and he will also enjoy watching you sex-your-lips-up in preparation.

But now that you have his mind and passion burning, it's time to enjoy the physical side of the blowjob. Below are some good blowjob techniques to slowly start the best blowjob of his life.

Warm-up Techniques for a Great Blowjob

Use Your Hands

Use your hands to warm him up by:

  • Feeling and squeezing him through his pants
  • Stroking his chest
  • Reach into his pants and roll his balls in your hand
  • Let him feel you feeling his cock as you take your hand out of his pants
  • If you are worried about taste, use your hands to wash him with a warm face-cloth

Use Your Mouth - part 1

Remember, enthusiasm is the key to how to give a blowjob. Don’t be shy but at the same time you don’t have to go all out right from the start. Teasing is a sweet torture. So whether you start out leisurely or at full pace, try these oral warm-him-up techniques.

  • Cat licks and dog licks – Just lick his cock and balls everywhere with quick little cat licks and long wet flat tongued dog licks. Get him wet all over.
  • Catfish – Attach your mouth to the side of his cock and with your tongue to keep the saliva flowing, without losing contact, move your mouth up and down his cock and balls and anywhere you want. When you finally get to the head take him fully into your mouth to move on to the main course.
  • Hot Air – Simply blow gently onto his cock and balls briefly before commencing the blowjob. Watch his scrotum move and swirl as you change the temperature with your breath.

Use Your Mouth - part 2

Use your aural skills. Men are visual creatures, that cannot be denied, but you can stimulate a man also with words and sounds too.

  • Soft moaning - doing this while you are starting out gives him the impression you are enjoying yourself, which you should be! And if you are enjoying it, he will all the more.
  • Talking too much - it is super annoying. But at the beginning, starting out with a bit of dirty talk between soft little sucks and licks is a fun way to tease him all the more, and get him even more worked up. "Oh.." suck "honey.." lick "I love" lick, suck "your.." long suck "nice.." quick lick "hard.." quick lick "cock..". See if he doesn't love that!

Use Your Body

  • Let him see your sexiness. Wear your sexiest underwear for the special occasion or just strip down to your plain white panties. Men love to look!
  • For those women well endowed, graze your breasts or nipples across his chest to let him feel their smooth and soft texture. Let him feel the warm full weight of your breast as they briefly rest on his cock.

Use your cellphone

  • Send him sexy text messages that let him know he is in for a treat when he gets home, or when you meet. This will have him fantasising all day and he will be so mentally aroused when you do get together that every sensation will be enhanced by the hormones racing around in his brain.

Remember, the warm-him-up isn’t a means to an end; rather it is just a way to get the party started. Tease him and drag it out a little or just say hello then get down to blowjob business. Either way, have fun with the blowjob warm-up techniques then use the blowjob basics to get him from the warm-up to blowjob heaven.