Anatomy of a Blowjob - A Guide to Pleasuring His Penis

A blowjob focuses on his pleasure with specific attention to his genitals. Here we look at his genitalia and devide it into distinct erotic zones and give you some fun tips on how to work each area.

Beware that while most of these blowjob techniques are fairly easy to try, some are not for the faint of heart, and may require a willing and open mind from both parties.

Urethra Opening

The urethra opening is also know as the pee hole (or more crudely the piss hole) and is where urine and in the case of a blowjob; semen exits the body. The small hole is more of a slit and has two half moon shaped red areas to each side that are soft and fleshy.

• Tip 1: The urethra opening is a very sensitive area on a penis, but it isn't as pleasure sensitive as other areas. Some men find it a turn on to have their urethra opening licked as if you were trying to get the tip of your tongue inside but be very gentle.
  Try it out to see how your man reacts, but remember it is a sensitive area and too much attention can be aggravating.
• Tip 2: Another trick to try with the urethra opening, is when he is coming, if you aren't a big fan of swallowing - try putting the underside of your tongue over the urethra opening and this will force the cum to squirt under your tongue and dribble out.
  This might sound strange but no taste buds under your tongue means the main complaint of cum (the taste) is eliminated.

Glans

The glans is more commonly known as the head or more colorfully as the purple helmet. It is somewhat softer and spongier than the shaft of the penis, and resembles the texture of a hard boiled egg.
This area is the focus of most blowjobs for two reasons:
-It is the top of the penis, so naturally is the first part of the penis to enter the mouth.
-The head along with another special area we'll include in this section, directly below the head on the belly of the penis, is the most sensitive area of a mans penis and stimulation of this area is the most common way to bring about orgasm.

• Tip 1: The head is the focal point in a blowjob. Of course, try to see as many places as you can, but this is where you end up and this is how you make him come.
  Whether you are using your hand, mouth, breasts, whatever - keep the head inside. If it's your hand, stoke part of his shaft, but it's always the top that guys focus on, so learn from them. If it's your mouth, then the old school up and down bobbing action gets it done.
• Tip 2: Take the head into your mouth, and just go crazy with your tongue. Try to put your tongue on random - swirl it around the whole head, just use the tip, use the rough side, use the smooth underside, flick it like a snake, use it like you might be stroking the chin of a baby kitten.
  Go crazy and try to get your tongue everywhere at the same time, while keeping the head in your mouth. (Using your hands somewhere else at the same time is gold!)
• Tip 3: This technique is more to excite him mentally than provide direct stimulation, but that is just as important.
  Hold the shaft firmly or stroke him slowly while you lick just the head like a lollipop.
  Make sure he can see what you are doing, and with a sexy "I know you love this" smile, look him right in the eyes as you take a big lick of his sweet lollipop.
• Tip 4: Another show-off move that works well if you throw it in every so often. Simply come up off his cock for a few seconds and swirl your tongue around the head.
  You can just swirl your tongue around the head, or you can try to follow the coronal ridge (where the head flares out). Either way, this is a teaser or a mental pleaser, so you only need do it for a little while to make it work. Too long and it will get boring.

Foreskin

Not every man has one of these. If he has been circumcised then he is missing this skin which in an uncircumcised man, covers the head of the penis.
There are pros and cons to having a foreskin. Those men who are circumcised are generally less sensitive, which can make it harder to make them come. Circumcised men however can often seem cleaner. This is because under the foreskin, something called smegma is produced that can have a strange smell. However, with good hygiene, there is no reason an un-cut man cannot keep his penis clean and fresh.

• Tip 1: Some men's foreskin will automatically retract when they become erect, but most will remain covering the head until manually pulled back.
  Suck the head with the foreskin still up and slip your tongue under the foreskin, exploring the hidden head with the tip of your tongue.
  Once you have finished exploring, make a tight ring with your lips and push the foreskin back.
• Tip 2: Men with foreskins masturbate differently to men without. Often they will keep their foreskin up to act as a lube, by reducing the direct friction on their head, which is generally more sensitive due to it being protected by the foreskin all day.
  Try masterbating him with the foreskin up and between your hand and his head when you need a break from using your lips/tongue/mouth.

Urethra

The urethra is the tube that carries the urine and semen through the penis and out of the body. It is the third main part of the shaft, after the two parallel and sturdier corpa cavernosa that fill with blood to create the erection.
If you draw a line from the anus to the tip of the penis, you may notice a line of discoloured skin along this trail. This is more easily visible on the skin covering the urethra. In some men it is not noticeable, in others it is quite distinguishable.

• Tip 1: As the urethra forms part of the shaft, just about everything you are doing to the shaft during a blowjob, you are doing to the urethra.
  The urethra is on the underside, and for some reason the underside of the penis is more sensitive that the top, so using your tongue to trace the urethra is a fun way to use your tongue during your blowjob.
  Alternatively, if you are stroking the shaft, try rotating your hand so your thumb is directly over the urethra tube.
• Tip 2: This tip is for after the finale. Once your man has come, there still might be a drop of semen left inside the urethra.
  Most men after bringing themselves to orgasm, will squeeze the length of their shaft like a toothpaste tube to get this last drop out. They wouldn't do it if it didn't feel good, so try it out for him. Ten points if you are enthusiastic enough to lick that last drop of the tip of his cock with a "cat got the milk" grin.

Shaft

The shaft is made of three parts. There is the tube that is along the underside, which carries urine and semen out of the body. The other two part are called the 'corpa cavernosa' these are the part of the penis that fills with blood and become hard, creating the erection.
Some men have a slight curve to their shaft. Most apparently to the left, and some more so than others.

• Tip 1: The main method of attack for the shaft it to use your hands.
  Use your hand to stroke it while you are using your mouth elsewhere.
  When gripping a mans penis, be quite firm. If you put your hand around your wrist and apply just enough pressure to stop blood circulation so that the veins on your hand start to swell - that is the absolute minimum pressure use on a guys shaft. In fact, that amount of pressure will be a delicious tease, so don't be afraid to use a grip twice as firm.
  Stroke up and down, and when your mouth gets tired, let you stroking cover his whole dick.
• Tip 2: So while you may use your hand most of the time on his shaft, a great blowjob will see your tongue get everywhere.
  His cock is a dripping ice cream on a stick, and you are trying to lick it all up as fast as you can. Big licks up his shaft, using your whole tongue.
  Make it your goal to get saliva all over him. For this part, you don't want to have a dry tongue, so if you need to, have a glass of warm water nearby. Warm water will keep your mouth nice and warm.
  Another way to keep the juices flowing is with a candy in your mouth. Or even use some tasty blowjob lube!
• Tip 3: Another way to get sexy with his shaft is to get a bit musical.
  Imagine his shaft is a harmonica and you are in a country band. First get him and your lips slippery, then start sucking on the side of his cock and slipping up and down, without breaking contact.
  This is a great one to make eye contact with him, and let him see your sexy, exciting, confidence in what you are doing.

Scrotum

The scrotum is the skin pouch or sack that holds the testicles. The testicles themselves are extremely sensitive, and the slightest jolt can cause pain. The scrotum on the other hand is quite durable, and can handle a fair amount of pulling, pinching, squeezing before it becomes painful.

• Tip 1: The scrotum expands and contracts to bring the testes closer or further away from the body, in order to keep them a constant temperature.
  It can be fun to watch how it moves as it contracts when it gets cold.
  To try it, just spend a little while softly sucking and licking his scrotum (which he will be loving!), then when his scrotum is sufficiently relaxed pull back and gently blow a cool breeze across his balls.
  Watch them swirl around as they pucker up to keep his testes nice and warm.
• Tip 2: His testicles are probably the most vulnerable area of his body, so it can be fun to gently test his pain threshold here.
  Suck his scrotum, and try to get one of his testicles into your mouth too.
  Now, slowly pull away from his body, while slowly increasing the suction. Watch his reactions carefully, you don't want to hurt him!
  Let go with a pop when you think it's getting close to his limit.
• Tip 3: You don't have to just use your mouth with his balls.
  While you are sucking his cock, keep a hand under his ball in a cupping motion.
  Then you can gently pull your hand down and kind of towards you, half keeping a grip with just your fingers (ie. holding, not squeezing) and let his scrotum slide out of your hand.
  Try it with your fingers to the side (this feels more natural) and with your fingers pointing directly away from you.

Perineum

The perineum is known by a few names, more commonly "the taint", or "no man's land", and is the area between the balls and the anus.
What we see of his cock sticks out above his balls, but the shaft actually continues under the balls and even under the perineum. So area of skin hiding behind his balls is also hiding the rest of his shaft!

• Tip 1: Because the perineum is covering a part of his shaft, you can use you fingertips to quite firmly rub this area.
  By rubbing back and forth, you are stroking a section of his shaft not often stroked, and it will feel amazing for him.
  Stroke up and down, and when your mouth gets tired, let you stroking cover his whole dick.
• Tip 2: There is no escaping how close the perineum is to his anus. Some of those on the receiving end may not like you getting that close, and some of you on the giving end may not want to get that close yourself anyway..
  But if you are comfortable with it, don't be afraid to get your tongue down there while you are paying special attention to his scrotum.
  It's not super sensitive, but swirling your tongue around here, or just big licks that cover his lower scrotum area too will feel super good for him.
• Tip 3: This final tip is more an extension to one of the "scrotum" tips.
  If you are cupping and stroking his balls with your hand (while you are licking and sucking his hard cock), let your fingers wander back and stroke this area softly too, along with his ball sack.
  So, either a firm massage, a loving tonguing or a softer stroke all feel good on his perineum.

The Scrotum Valley

This is the area between his ball sack and his leg, the pit that might be comparable to an arm pit. It's not an attractive name, but it is still a sensitive area that can be used to your advantage in proving amazing blowjob pleasure.

• Tip 1: This is not really an area you need to focus on for must guys, but a little attention can be nice.
  A good time to visit the valley is right at the beginning, as you are kissing and licking around his cock and balls, building anticipation, kiss your way through the valley.
  It's a sensitive area for girls and guys, so even though it's not the goal, a passing flick of the tongue or some hovering kisses feel wonderful while waiting for more wonderful to come.

Anus

Hmmmm... The anus. An area for the more adventurous. But for those who are adventurous enough, oh the fun you can have!!
The anus is the exit hole for faeces and because of this is an unhygienic area to delve into unprepared. If you do wish to explore this area be sure to wash well in the shower beforehand. You may want to consider dental dams and rubber gloves.
It is a sphincter and thus can open and close, but forcing it can cause pain and injury.
Warnings over, let's get to the fun.

• Tip 1: While you are doing whatever you do to make him rock hard and soft like jelly, wet a fingertip or two with lube or saliva.
  Reach under his balls and smear the lube all over his anus. Just rub around gently, don't feel the need to confine yourself just to his anus, feel free to come forward onto the perineum too.
  The reason it can feel good is the anus, like the penis and vulva have a high nerve ending count per square millimeter. The reasons it might not feel good are many, but it's well to remember that sexual pleasure is psychological and well as physical, and a lot of guys have strong feelings when it comes to touching their ass.
• Tip 2: The next tip - analingus - is for the bolder explorer.
  If you have tried the previous tip, of softly stroking the outside of the anus with a lubed fingertip, then the next step is the same but a little more personal.
  Instead of using a finger, you go in with your tongue.If you have received this yourself, then you may be able to appreciate the decadence of receiving analingus.
  To be able to get to his ass, you may have to push his legs back, the same way he would if he was going down on you. Feel the power!
  As with head: warm, wet and soft are what feel good. Let your tongue explore as you feel comfortable. Moving between his balls and anus, the whole time stroking his cock (or getting him to) will blow his mind. For safe sex, plastic food wrap or dental dams can be used to prevent spread of bacteria from his anus to your mouth.
• Tip 3: This third tip is for the boldest.
  This is basically a the first tip going deeper! Start of with the first tip then apply a little more pressure when massaging his anus. Then, when you are both ready, slide your finger up inside him.
  Now you can try to stimulate his prostate while giving him head, something that most open mineded guys love (provided he doesn't need to poop or fart). To get his p-spot, apply pressure upward, towards his belly button once your finger is between second knuckle and fully inserted. For best results, try stroking from the inside without too much in-out fucking motions.

If you have found this list of ways to pleasure his male anatomy to be educational, be sure to read the blowjob guide, where you will find the secret to giving great head.