Oral Exercises - Practicing Blowjobs at Home
If you get a lot of free time alone with your lover then you have the chance to do some blowjob practice with him. If you don't, then you may want to do a few minutes "blowjob training" by yourself. It may sound silly, but if the desire comes over you to spoil your lover with an unforgettable blowjob, then a little training will go a long way.
Why do I Need to do Blowjob Exercises
There are many different kinds of blowjobs, from the quick "just a taste" blowjob before sex; the "quickie" that makes him come but isn't so memorable to the long and luxurious blowjob when you just want to spoil him rotten or feel like indulging your oral cravings.
If you want to give your lover a blowjob he will never forget, this kind of blowjob takes a while. It's not a sprint, it's long distance. If you are unconditioned your jaw might cramp up on you. (Not that you will just be bobbing the whole time, but still.)
Blowjob Exercises
Jaw Stretching
The first thing that seems to tire out when you are giving a long and luxurious blowjob is your jaw. To exercise your jaw, start with a quick warm up by opening and closing your jaw as if you are working a crick out of your jaw.
Next, relax your jaw and move it side to side, all the while slowly opening and closing your jaw.
Step three is to really stretch the jaw with a yawning motion. Stretch your jaw as wide as you can. Hold for 2-3 seconds and relax. Stretch again and hold for 5-10 sec. Stretch your jaw once more but this time hold at maximum stretch for as long as you can. Then relax.
Facial and Labial (lip) Muscles
The next blowjob exercise is for your facial muscles. Make a pout, pushing your lips out as far as you can and hold for 2-3 seconds then pull back into an exaggerated smile for 2-3 seconds then relax briefly. Repeat again holding for 5-10 seconds then again for 30-40 seconds.
The last exercise area is the most important part of your blowjob arsenal - your tongue. (You may wish to do these exercises in the shower so that your hands will be clean for this part, but if not, be sure to wash your hands first. Or instead of using your fingers to simulate the cock, you can use a dildo!)
For Tongue Strength
Place two fingers (fore and middle) inside your mouth, pad side down against your tongue, up to the second knuckle. Press your tongue up against your fingers, flatly so as to get the most surface contact and pressure. Slide your tongue down your fingers so your tongue will come out of your mouth while maintaining the pressure and contact. Bring your tongue back into your mouth.
Now switch to just applying pressure with the tip. Again slide your tongue as far down your fingers as you can while maintaining the pressure.
Now go back to the flat tongue, apply as much pressure as you can but this time as you go down your fingers swish your tongue side to side.
Then go back to just the tip, but with the side to side motion. Maintain pressure the whole way.
For Tongue Agility
With your fore and middle finger in your mouth to the second knuckle, flick the tip of your tongue back and forth against the underside of your first knuckle, an approximation of where the sweet spot would be on your lovers cock. While flicking back and forth, cycle from strong pressure to light flicks. Keep flicking with the tip of your tongue as fast as you can for at least 60 seconds.
Lastly take your fingers out of your mouth but directly in front of your lips as if you were making the "shhh" gesture with two fingers but with your fingers turned pads towards you. Now more flicking up and down, but this time with a flat tongue. Flick upwards with the rough side of your tongue and downwards with the soft underside of your tongue. Go as fast as you can for at least 60 seconds.
Looking for more skills to work on? How about learning how to deepthroat?
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