Tips to Perfect Your Head Technique

Here are a variety of blowjob tips for you to use while you are giving you man a sensuous blowjob. These blowjob tips are the essentials to a great blowjob. Try them out to see what works for you, as every blowjob is a learning step towards a better blowjob.

Tips for Every Blowjob

Enthusiasm

This is the most important blowjob tip and is nothing new to the message BlowjobHow promotes - Love It and Enjoy It!! If you enjoy it and are enthusiastic and he sees that, that alone will make you an amazing lover in his eyes. Also if you enjoy it, that enthusiasm will lead you to discover your own personal blowjob tips and tricks that work just for you and him.

Variety

After enthusiasm for giving him head, this is probably the next most important blowjob tip. Repetition is numbing. Changing sensations lets him to refocus on the stimulation.

Doing the same thing the whole time you are giving him head will not work, it will not feel good for him and it will not feel good for you - think lock jaw. And it will be boring for both of you. So do something he is loving for a while but switch to something else before it gets boring. Try these ideas:

  • If you are sucking and bobbing up and down for a while and notice you or he is becoming less enthused, take him out of your mouth and try licking instead of sucking. Or take a moment to just stroke him with your hand.
  • Don't use the same hand the whole time. A good grip and stroke does work, but change to a softer stroking for a while to allow the nerves to re-awaken. When you go back to a stronger grip, it feels better than before.
  • From softly sucking his cock, with a hand resting over the top of his cock, pull it slightly down so it is pointing straight out at 90 degrees then very carefully, torturously rake your nails up the underside of his shaft. Then when you go back to warm, wet and sensuously soft it will feel so good again!
  • Vary the temperature from a warm mouth to cooler by blowing on his cock or by inhaling through your mouth while it is still full of him!
  • Especially relevant to stroking his cock, speed variation can feel amazing for him. Guys like their cocks stroked hard and fast, but too much can be a bad thing so you need to stroke hard and fast then do a few slower strokes. Same applies to sucking. Suck short, shallow and speedily then switch to a long deep suck. Or suck is cock lovingly, as deep and slow as you can then slide a hand up from the base and stroke hard and fast for a few seconds before going back to the deep suck.

Basic Blowjob Tips

Enthusiasm is key, variety is important, and the following are the foundation of those super special blowjobs:

  • Wet and slippery is good. Try to get it wet from the start with saliva (or flavored lubes). Keep it wet. While you are sucking on him, don't feel the need to swallow the saliva that builds up in your mouth. Let it dribble out of your mouth and down his cock to lubricate the rest of his shaft.
  • His balls. Don't be afraid to give his balls some attention. Specifically it is the scrotum that enjoys the sensation your mouth will bring. Squeezing his testes themselves will bring pain. There are also tubes within his scrotum going from his testes further up into his body. Pressure to these tubes also will cause tremendous pain.
  • Use your hands. While he is in your mouth, a common and very effective blowjob trick is to use your hand to stroke up and down the shaft in time with your mouth. At the same time your other hand can be stroking his balls, thighs, belly, chest, anywhere.

Shared Blowjob Tips!

Feel free to add your general blowjob tips or advice to the comments below and share the blowjob love!

If you have a specific hand or mouth technique to share, comment here.

Comments (14)

  • I also like to use my breasts to tease him. Not just against his cock but also let him feel my breasts against his thighs, etc ;-)
    And make sure you are stimulating all over his body, that will make the blowjob even better!

  • Thickness

    I tend to use this tip for my husband . Let him be involved . When giving him head let him guide you . How fast he wants you to go or even how slow . I will ask him do you like it or even do you want me to stop already knowing the answer . When he is involved he feels like he is getting a bonus because he is in control .

  • Roger

    I used these tips on myself, so fun :p

  • andrea

    my man also likes a little nibbling

  • Janus

    who writes this? really bad black & white.
    Repetition is numbing.? Wrong!
    Not always. there are so many variables, & when the situation is right, repetition is everything & can lead to extreme build up & climax. The slower you go with repetition alot of the times better. The faster the more likely the numbing.
    Alot of the times simple is best, being horny is the work force for extreme pleasure not fancy techniques.

  • Barry

    The best idea that I have with giving blowjobs is to practice a good attitude. I think passion is the single greatest element that I bring to the blowjobs that I give. And I give a lot of blowjobs. The more that I enjoy a guy's cock, the more he seems to enjoy the blowjob.

  • Hey Janus, thanks for you comment. I am the one who writes this. Am a little bummed to hear you think what I have written is black and white. I try to be aware and explain the grey details as often as possible but sometimes, writing about every possible reaction or possiblity is difficult and becomes very lengthy!
    However, I have to say, in the context I have presented it, repetition is numbing. To quote the text above:
    "Repetition is numbing. Doing the same thing for the whole time you are giving him head will not work..."
    When I wrote this I was imagining someone giving head without using any techniques other than the up and down bobbing. No hand, no licking, nothing but bobbing. That will make any cock numb as well as your jaw!
    Anyway, thanks again for your comment - I especially agree with the last part that fancy techniques are very little to do with giving great head. It is all about being into what you are doing, enjoying it and having fun.

  • Barry

    I believe that the key to giving good blowjobs is part passion and part technique. This site has great suggestions for some techniques. You have to really enjoy the process...the passion makes it fun.

  • Barry

    Alle, thanks for the good advice. I think enthusiasm, variety and wetness are huge. Every blowjob I have performed, I've tried to keep these three things in mind and it seems to work very well.

  • Larry

    I enjoy a good blow job from my wife. Been sucking my dick for 45 years. I have never complained, she is great !

  • Donna

    my husband is very masculine but when he ejaculates he whimpers like a little boy and he has often said that he loves it when I praise and encourage him through this (very erotic). I just keep the momentum steady and encourage him to cum for me. He is so loving toward me afterward and that makes me feel so warm and horny too

  • Hi Donna, thanks for your comments!
    My hunband also makes very unusual noises when he orgasms from oral sex. It's almost as if he is about to cry! We both always have a good laugh at ourselves after we come because we're as strange as eash other when we lose control.

  • betterlove

    i usually yell when ejaculating in her throat, especially when she slobbers and gurgles while gulping cum

  • Lane

    Guys love to have their partner make love to the cock and balls, as if it were a mini me. Showing the type of passion that implies she loves that cock, and loves sucking it. So if you act like its your favorite hobby and you can't live without giving head, you'll love the results

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