Blowjob Tongue Techniques
You tongue is absolutely the most important thing that you should be using in a blowjob. It is strong and agile, it has a rough and a soft side for different textures, it has warmth and with the saliva from your mouth it is sexily slippery. How to use your tongue in a blowjob is something you learn through practice, trial and error. Every guy is similar but at the same time what each guys likes might be different and as this blowjob guide stresses, good blowjobs are more about attitude and enjoying yourself rather than about any one technique. So try all these tongue techniques and see which ones work for you.
Get to Know your Tongue
Before getting into specific techniques, it can be helpful to learn exactly how your tongue feels. To do this, simply put a clean finger in your mouth and move your tongue over it. Flick it with the tip, run the middle of your tongue over it forward and back, see how the middle of your tongue feels compared to the sides, the tip, the back, the underside. Feel the difference between a soft and hard tongue. Can you move your tongue and keep it soft? Or does it go hard when you start to move it? How about when you stick your tongue out of your mouth? Can you maintain control? Does it feel different?
Get to know what you can do with your tongue and see how the movement feels to you. (Try doing this in private, perhaps while you are enjoying yourself in another way!)
Tongue Techniques for Blowjobs
Flicking with the Tip
Pointing his cock upwards and holding it just in front of your mouth, flick the sweet spot with the tip of your tongue. Tease him with feather light flicks then apply more pressure. Flick your tongue up and down or try squiggles left and right while slowly moving up and down over his sweet spot.
Also try this flicking tongue technique along his perineum - the line between his anus and balls.
Pressure Point
When his cock is in your mouth so the underside of the head of his cock is resting on your tongue, push the tip of your tongue hard up against the sweet spot. Keep it there and move up and down. Then start moving your tongue slightly side to side or rolling it back and forward. The rolling back and forward should especially make him moan.
Head Swirl
Hold his cock so it is pointing towards your lips with the tip almost touching you. Stick your tongue out and swirl it around the head. Try to keep your tongue soft (although this can be hard when you are sticking your tongue out). This tongue technique is great as a mental stimulation - it's a showoff move, and that's always a good thing.
Every so often, take the head into your mouth and give the head a quick but intense suck to vary the sensation.
Everywhere
With this tongue technique, you may want to use some lube or just use saliva. Start by gathering some saliva in your mouth (see these tips on how to get saliva flowing for a blowjob) or if you are using blowjob lube, place a dollop at the base of his cock - right on the big tube and right where the scrotum meets the shaft. Then with a big, wide, flat tongue, smear the lube or saliva up and down his shaft. Get all around the sides, the head, even get his balls. The goal is just to make sure every square inch of him is coated.
Tight Fit
The main message BlowjobHow tries to promote is that a blowjob isn't about any special techniques but rather about loving what a blowjob is all about and to love doing it for your man when you are doing it. Everything else is just part of that. This however really is a good tongue technique that you can use to surprise your man with a sensation he might not have felt before in a blowjob.
As you take him into your mouth, keep the tip of your tongue on the bottom of your mouth and push the back up against the roof of your mouth. Now push him against your tongue. The tip of his cock should be pressing hard against your tongue. Then let the pressure off with your tongue so that he pushes through and goes a little deeper into your mouth. For him it will feel like he is penetrating something super tight.
A fair warning though - sometimes if you or he is pushing too hard, when you relax your tongue he might go in a little deeper than you expected and cause a little choking. So be careful.
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