How to Give a Handjob

BlowjobHow is a blowjob guide but it is also important to know how to give a handjob, because a handjob can be an integral part of a blowjob.

If you have read the rest of this guide, then hopefully you have picked up that the underlying message is to have fun and enjoy yourself when you are giving a blowjob. This also applies to giving a handjob. If he sees that you hate giving him a handjob then he won't enjoy it either. If you are enjoying yourself and he can see that then he will enjoy the handjob all that much more.

How to Give a Handjob

So, whether you are giving a handjob, a blowjob, a tit-fuck or anything else, there are some key factors that apply universally to pleasuring the male organ.

1. Wetness: Lubrication in any form (whether it is sex lube, saliva, olive oil, or soapy water if you are in the shower) helps your hand slip up and down his cock. The slipping, rather than just a firm un-slipping pull is the kind of stimulation that feels amazing to a man's cock.
2. Warmth: Men are made to enjoy putting their penis into a nice warm vagina. So warm hands are a must. If you naturally have cold hands, then quickly sneaking to the bathroom or kitchen and running hot water over your hands can help.
3. Pressure: It's not easy to know how hard to squeeze his cock when you are giving a handjob, but generally you want to have a good grip but not so strong that your hand can't move up and down. Try starting off feather light and slowly, slowly squeeze tighter to increase the pressure. Watch his face to see when it is too much, but don't worry, he will tell you before it becomes too much. Also know that is cock is quite durable, and even a strong squeeze wont injure him.
4. Focus on the head: The most sensitive part of the male organ the head, but this is more true for uncircumcised men. So start with your hand gripping around the head. If his foreskin is up it will help your hand slip up and down over the head. With uncircumcised men, be careful not to chafe the head with too much direct friction as it is particularly sensitive (being protected all day by the foreskin, compared with the head on cut guys cocks that rub directly against underwear all day long).
5. Sensation Variation: Try to keep the sensations changing. If you stick with one thing it can have a bit of a numbing effect, so switch it up! You can vary the speed, the movement, the pressure to create any number of different sensations.
6. Use everything you've got: If you're giving a handjob is part of your blowjob then you will be using your mouth anyway, sucking his balls, licking, kissing, etc. But if you are getting him off with just your hand, you still don't want it to be just your hand! You don't have to suck his cock but you can still kiss his belly, his chest, his inner thigh, his nipple. Also use your breasts, your smile, your voice - either dirty talking or even just vocalize your enjoyment.
7. Enjoy yourself: Whether it be enjoying the act, enjoying his pleasure or enjoying the pleasure you are giving yourself while simultaneously giving him pleasure, he will enjoy it more if he sees you getting into it too.

It is important to remember that every guy is different. Whether you are giving him a blowjob or handjob - how he likes it may differ from how previous lovers have enjoyed it or how you think it should be done. Don't let that put you off though, finding out what he likes best is a lot of fun!

How to Give a Handjob - Techniques

Below are some descriptions of good handjob techniques. Try these handjob techniques to enhance your blowjob or just anytime you find his cock in your hand.

Single Hand

Here are some single handed handjob techniques to try, but even though the main action requires only one hand, make sure you are using your other hand to do something - stroke his balls, rub his inner thigh, pinch his nipple - whatever takes your fancy

The Full Stroke

This handjob technique is a great one to revel in the glory of his cock. If you can grip your partners cock with two hands and still see the tip (ie. if his cock is big) then this is a great handjob technique that lets you both admire his natural endowment.

Start with your first around the head of his cock with a loose grip. Stroke down the shaft until you can't go any further then come back up, right over the head until you aren't holding his cock anymore, but you are still touching the tip. Repeat.

Use lube to allow your hand to slip up and down his full length. Adjust the strength of your grip to find just the right pressure. Slow with a firm grip or fast with a loose grip.

Milk the Head

This handjob technique is a perfect alternating accompaniment to the above "full stroke" technique. Using these techniques together will provide the perfect handjob technique as one moment you are titillating the nerves over his whole cock and the next you are focusing on the most sensitive area of his cock.

Start with a grip around the head of his cock and simultaneously squeeze and slip your hand up. You don't have to be squeezing his cock head hard, the squeezing is just to maintain contact as you move over his head and the head tapers down. Stroke back down then repeat the motion. This squeezing/milking motion is the closest to how many guys do it themselves.

Two Handed Handjobs

There are a few different ways you can use two hands to provide various amazing handjob sensations.

Double Pump

Just grab his cock with two hands and stroke up and down. Keep your fists together so the little finger of the top fist is resting on the forefinger of the bottom fist. Stroke up and down together. You absolutely should use lube for this.

Milk the Head - Squeeze Version

See the Milk the Head version above for the milking technique. Now take your other hand and tightly grip the base of his cock. Squeeze with the bottom hand and milk with the top hand. The squeeze will force more blood to the head and will intensify the sensation.

Twist n' Stretch

Grab his cock with two hands and with a fairly good grip, twist your hands in alternate directions while sliding your hands away from each other as if you were trying to stretch his cock out. It's ok if your top hand comes off the top of his cock. Stroke back down to return to the start position and keep repeating. Again, you absolutely should use lube for this handjob technique.

Never-ending Penetration

Make a fist with your hand and rest it on the tip of his hard cock so the tip is trying to get between your little finger and palm. Slide your hand down over the head of his cock, so it is "penetrating" your fist, from the little finger end. Stroke all the way to the base of his cock. Follow it with your other hand while the first hand comes back to the top and keep going so he is only feeling the downward stroke.
Vary the strength of your grip strength so that the "penetration" ranges from super tight to feathery soft to really get the best sensation from this handjob technique. Use lube!!

What are some special hand job techniques that you use? Share your knowledge and leave a comment below!