Question

Do girls mind if you pull their hair back during a blowjob?

Answer

Women generally don't mind you touching their head when they are giving you a blowjob. In fact it is nice to your touch as we are giving you this pleasure. We like to feel your reactions to what we are doing and this can be done though your touch on her head or her body, depending on what position you are in. In a normal blowjob position, it will be her head you can most easily reach so it makes sense for you to touch her there. As well as touch, there are other ways you can communicate your pleasure to help her know if what she is doing feels good, such and moaning, telling her and natural body language - you don't need to be a silent, un-reactive machine when getting head. In fact the opposite is better.

Holding her hair back is a nice way to increase the intimacy and sliding your fingers through her hair can feel nice for her. Pulling her hair back can also be helpful as it can get in the way of giving a great blowjob if it isn't tied back and it's hard to give great head while simultaneously holding our own hair back.

Just to clarify, you should be holding her hair back gently, not pulling her hair or pulling her head back by pulling her hair - not that there is any reason to pull her back as that would only interrupt the blowjob. But when she is moving up and down as she sucks your cock, be sure to move with her rather than push and pull her head.

What women don't like is when you try pushing them down on to your cock with no regard for their own personal comfort. She isn't there to offer her mouth as a masturbation device - there are sex toys for that. She is there at that moment to give you pleasure as her partner so you need to let her do that. Don't try to push her down and don't use her hair or ponytail as a grip to push and pull her head.

If you are playing with her hair, try to get all her hair in one bunch - if you accidently pull her hair it hurts if you have only a few strands where as a big bunch doesn't hurt at all. This is good to remember if you both enjoy you pulling her hair at other times of intimacy.

So in summary, no - girls don't mind you holding their hair back as they give you head and in fact it can feel nice and be helpful.

 

Comments (2)

  • Sarah

    I quite like when he gathers my hair into a ponytail, it's helpful and it's sweet especially when he holds it while looking at me adoringly and expressing his pleasure laced with expletives :P

  • Lol, guys do seem to lose the ability to speak properly, don't they! Once you start giving them head, it's all moans and expletives.

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