Question

Why is oral sex important in a relationship? What is the importance of giving the man and the woman in the relationship oral sex? How does it make them feel? Why do they want it? Why do they enjoy it? And how does it make the relationship so much better? 

Answer

Oral sex is an important part of a healthy sexual relationship only if oral sex is important to the people in that relationship. Some people don't need it at all, in which case it isn't important, but for others who really enjoy giving and getting oral sex, it is important and just like sex it becomes an expression of love.

And before I continue, a caveat: This website is a guide to giving great head. It is not a guide to relationships and any advice given in any way should be taken only as opinion.

That said; let's talk about why oral sex is important for men and women in a relationship.

Mostly, the reason it is important is because it makes us feel good and making your partner feel good can only be beneficial to a relationship.

Tied in with the above is the aspect of giving. Oral sex has one person being pleasured by the other. It is about giving a receiving and giving to your partner and receiving from your partner this kind of devoted attention and pleasure increases intimacy and again, this can only be good for a relationship.

Giving oral sex to your partner can make you feel good because it is an act of giving and you get to see the pleasure it brings them. However, if one person gives more often than the other, this can cause negative feeling to build up.

Getting oral sex from your partner feels good because of the physical pleasure but also because your partner is expressing their love and desire for you in an act that is somewhat selfless. Giving for the sake of giving and you are the target of that affection. One can't help but enjoy that.

There are many reasons why men and women want oral sex and why it feels good for them. Aside from the physical pleasure, oral sex is, for many, a much more intimate act than sex itself (while for others it is less so...) and giving that pleasure shows that intimacy.

Oral sex can be beneficial for a relationship for the above reasons but it isn't absolutely necessary for everyone. Oral sex is an act of giving, so it is important that both partners are engaging in oral sex so that one partner doesn't feel left out. It is also important to establish a balance in each partners desire to give and get oral sex because we aren't all the same when it comes to these desires.

 

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