Question

How can I make my penis less sensitive? When my girlfriend is giving me head I get chills and feel like I might pee, even though I don't have to. She is great at what she does so I feel like it's all me but I always have to make her stop and that bothers her. Is there a way to make my penis less sensitive so I can actually cum during a blow job?

 Answer

 The thing about feeling like you need to pee is actually something I have been asked before! Have a look at this answer. Basically what it comes down to (according to medical sites I browsed) is being too tense.

But, I am wondering if there is a chance that she is too intense? Try it out after asking her to give you a very soft blowjob and see how that makes you feel. If you still feel the need to pee then maybe it isn't her technique.

It would make sense and be quite normal for you to be tense during sexual encounters at the age of 19. In fact at any age, sexual encounters, though they are supposed to be fun and fulfilling, can make one or both partners tense. That feeling is often compounded when a simple expectation such as coming from a blowjob isn't met. This starts both partners worrying about performance - you, the ability to come; her, the ability to make you come, and this basically ruins the whole thing. But being younger, it is harder to laugh these issues away.

So, if the solutions on this and the other page in the link don't work, try just enjoying what you can from the blowjob and worry less about the orgasm. When it becomes too much, take a time out to return the favour. Then you might surprise yourself - it is usually when you stop focusing on something that it happens. Good luck.

 

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