Question

Why can't I cum from a blowjob?

Answer

This is a really common problem and when it happens it's not just guys that are frustrated - us girls also start to get worried. And when worry and fear start to creep in, well... as Yoda says "Fear is the path to the dark side".

The most likely reason that you can't come when getting head, and the one I will address here, is due to a lack of practice. And I am talking to you guys when I say that. Guys need to practice to be able to come more easily when getting head! Especially if you jack off a lot.

When jacking off, you tend to use quite a lot of force (the amount of which can be surprising to women). When fucking, you thrust and again, often with quite a lot of force. When getting a blowjob, the stimulation is quite different - as in a lot softer than a blowjob and there is usually no thrusting or definitely not as much as when fucking.

So you need to practice, or to learn how to come from this different kind of stimulation. You already know it is wonderful. You already know you love it when your lover takes you into her mouth and lavishes that warm, wet, loving attention upon your cock but you still have trouble coming.

One of the things you have to practice is coming as soon as you can. You shouldn't try to last a long time during a blowjob. If you and your lover want the blowjob to go to completion, you should usually come the first chance you get. It might feel better to take longer to come but think about your partner. Though it is a wonderful thing to give someone you love a blowjob, the reality is that it can also be tiring. So come quickly and practice coming quickly, whether this is by yourself of with your partner.

When practicing with your partner, there is also the benefit that she gets to practice too. And the thing about giving or getting head, or eating pussy or making love is that because we are all individual it takes time to learn your partner's individualities. Sure, you can be good at fucking, but after fucking the same person for a while you are going to be much better at it with that person. The same goes for fellatio and being able to come from being fellated - it just takes some practice.

 

Comments (1)

  • Rosalind

    It could be because you have a lot of stamina that prevents you from cuming quickly

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