Question

How can I give my girlfriend pointers on blowjobs?

Answer

So your girlfriend is giving you a blowjob and it feels good but she keeps doing something that doesn't feel so great, maybe it even hurts and you want to give her a few pointers so she can give you better head. Understandable.

But the tricky part is not sounding like a total douche-bag.

The best thing you can do is go with the psychology of positive reinforcement, aka praise. Somewhat childish, but it works as long as you aren't being condescending. So when it does feel good, let her know with a moan and even a few words. The more specific you can be the more effectively she will be able to understand what it is that felt so good.

"Ohhhhh yessssss, that thing you are doing with your tongue right now baby, yessss!" or "Oh fuck! What was that? Do it again!"

But then what might happen is, now that she knows you like that thing, she might do it too much. Again, going with positive reinforcement rather than a negative criticism, ask her to do something else and let her know that feels good with more moaning or however you communicate your pleasure. If she still hasn't picked up that variety feels better, ask her to do something else and then, again, moaning your appreciation, let her know that it feels good when she keeps doing different things.

Now that she is licking and sucking and nibbling and stroking you will both have a better chance to figure out what feels good for you. When it feels good, let her know. When it doesn't just ask her to do something else. Avoid comments like "I don't like that." or "Honey, that doesn't feel very good at all." that will definitely make her question her skills and feel very self-conscious and kill her confidence - one of the most important tools a woman can have to help her give great head.

 

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