Question
Should I use my hand or tongue to squeeze out the pre-cum? I find images of blow jobs where pre cum is evident and of it being licked or sucked up. Is it hotter having the woman cause the pre-cum to be generated by licking the underside of the shaft or by her hand or have the guy do it?
Answer
So you want to get the pre-cum that is waiting in the urethra of his shaft to spill out by sliding either your tongue or your hand up his cock and effectively squeeze the pre-cum out like toothpaste out of the tube. The other alternative if for him to do it himself.
I think the hotter way would be with your hand simply because I don't think your tongue would be so effective. Most guys don't usually generate too much pre-cum anyway so getting it out really is like squeezing the last bit out of the toothpaste tube.
What makes it hot is seeing you squeezing the pre-cum out then watching you lick it off his cock. Most of what makes a blowjob so special for guys is the psychological aspects of it. Physically it feels good (obviously) but what makes it so special is it's you saying to him "Yep, I like your baby-maker as much as you do (and more that any other guy's)." And cum plays into that psychology too - pre-cum included.
A lot of people say you don't have to swallow because it doesn't make the blowjob feel any better. But that's not what swallowing is about. It's about, among other things, acceptance - spitting is such a rejecting and hateful act. So licking that pre-cum off his cock is sexy because it shows him you aren't scared of his flavour, his scent, his "essence". That's the hot part.
If there's an issue with taste, here's my answer to how to get over the taste of precum.
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