Question

I cum so quickly when my babe gives me a blow job, how can I last longer? I want to ask if you know any techniques that would let me not cum so soon when receiving blowjobs.

Answer

So you come too quickly when your partner gives you a blowjob.

The first thing I want to say is that you should check with your partner. If she doesn't mind you coming so quickly (and I suspect she doesn't - it probably makes her feel pretty good that she can do that for you) then why worry? Taking longer might make it less enjoyable for your partner!

However, I can understand that coming too quickly when getting great head is a sad thing because it feels so good! Coming just means it's over. So here are a couple of ideas.

The first one is something like training for fighting premature ejaculation. Basically, it's all about stopping before you come. Wait for a while then start again. When you get close to orgasm, again, stop. Wait, then start again. Transferring this to blowjobs, I suggest that when you get close to orgasm but don't want to come, ask her to lick your balls or your nipples, or just to stop for a moment. Take the time to pleasure her then go back to getting head. Let her know you don't want to come so she knows why you are stopping or asking her to lick your balls.

The second suggestion is more about lasting longer for her and involves the power of your mind. Basically, stop thinking about the pleasure your penis is getting and try to think about something less erotic. Try doing long division in your head. This will slow you down but will also reduce the pleasure because you aren't fully enjoying the blowjob. It's a catch twenty-two.

So for you, I think the first suggestion is probably going to be the best, just make sure to tell your partner that you are trying not to come so quickly so she knows to slow down or stop when you ask. If she doesn't know, she might keep going and try to make you come on purpose as that's what we want to see when we give guys head - we want to make you orgasm! Have fun.

 

Comments (1)

  • L. Smith

    Though I haven't experienced a blowjob before but one of my friend suggested me whenever you have one, just chew a gum and it will divert your mind to reach orgasm early to come late as he applied with her girlfriend and that worked.

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