Question

Should a guy be hard at the start of a blowjob? And if he isn't, whose job is it to get him ready and hard for the blowjob? Should the guy already be hard or does the girl need to do all the work?

Answer

Ok, so taking a guy's pants off in preparation for a blowjob, you hope to be greeted with an excited and ready to go cock - one that's nice and hard. Sometimes, that doesn't happen though.

The reasons can be many*. Snuggling up to my guy and looking into his eyes with and smiling in a way that asks "What are you looking at?" when I'm the one making him look at me seems to affect him every time. And I enjoy feeling his cock grow in his pants against my body. And yet there are times when I'm sure knowing what I'm about to do will have him rock hard and the pants come down to reveal Mr. Floppy.

What can you do? First thing is make sure you don't make a big deal about it. Because really, it's not. 

Next, enjoy it! Feeling a cock grow in your mouth is a lot of fun and it makes it a lot easier to try and get it all in your mouth!

Anyway, to answer your question - I think it's all up to you. But don't think of it as work. Good head is about loving what you are doing. If you're thinking about it as work, your blowjobs aren't going to be as good as they can be.

 

*Reasons can include: stress; he's not mentally turned on; he doesn't think you'll enjoy it; etc. One more reason this can happen is because he's too drunk. Between partners, this shouldn't matter too much. On a one night stand, this is disastrous! But I'm not here to talk about one night stand blowjobs. This guide is for committed couples.

 

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