Question

Is it possible he came without me knowing? How can I tell when he comes? I was giving a blow job but we were both really drunk. He stopped me and said "That was really good, I'll go down on you now." While I was giving him head he was moaning. So did he come and I just didn't know because I was really drunk, preoccupied with giving a bj because I am new to this? Just by the way he stopped me and said it was really good and was moaning the whole time kinda makes me think he did cum, I just didn't realize.

Answer

It sounds like you guys were having a great time and you know how to give a great blowjob, judging by the moaning you describe. I hope you enjoyed his tongue in return. ;)

So, when a guy comes, you can usually taste it. I think even if you were quite drunk, you'd still taste it. So I think in this case he didn't come. There is a chance he did and he just didn't ejaculate but that's rare.

The thing about being drunk is that it can make guys take a long time to come. (It can even leave their cock numb and unable to get erect.)

In this case, I suspect he didn't come, just that your blowjob got him so horny he wanted to taste you too. Guys like licking pussy just as much as we enjoy sucking cock and if they still haven't come, thier sexual drive is still strong. (After a guy comes, his sexual drive drops off quite dramatically and he's prone to fall asleep.)

His comment of "That was really good." probably just meant "Everything you've done up to now was really good but before you make me come..." But as I said before, he may have come without ejaculating, but that is rare.

Some key points you may notice when he approaches and reaches orgasm:

  • jerky body movements
  • thick liquid coming out of his cock in spurts (it may or may not "shoot" out)
  • more noise
  • his cock, especially the head, swells a bit more than it has so far
  • he might simply say "I'm gonna come!"

 

Comments (4)

  • kati

    I get really wet while going down on my bf is this normal?

  • Hi Kati,

    Yep, that is very normal - you're doing something sexual and even though it's not for your physical pleasure, it's a turn on for you and your body is reacting. Guys get erections from touching, kissing, licking us, and we get turned on by the same things too!

  • Sandy

    When I give my boyfriend blowjobs, I hardly get him to come. I normally just get pre-cum. His penis returns to normal after pre cum and I stop after that because I know it'll be painful if I continue. So why does he just pre cum and his penis returns to normal shape? Like how do you give blowjobs? Do you have to keep going after he pre-cums or do you stop? Because my boyfriend pre-cums quite a lot but I know that it's not cum because it's clear. Or is it cum? I'm confused. Thanks for the help.

  • Hi Sandy,
    Just from your description it's not so easy to tell if it's cum of just precum.
    In my experience, precum leaks out but cum shoots out and there's no mistaking the cum from his orgasm.
    If he is cumming then getting flacid, that's normal and a good time to stop.
    If his penis is becoming flacid during a blowjob then he's simply having problems with his erection which is a sad but normal occurance too.
    Either way, the best thing would be to ask him is he just came or if it was pre-cum and if you want to know whether you should stop or not - again, ask him... tactfully.
    Good luck!

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