Question

What steps should I take for my first blowjob? I have yet to give my boyfriend a blowjob, but I’m looking to surprise him with one, and I wanna make it hot, like under the covers, just me. I don't want him looking at me, cause it'd be my first one. But we've never had sex, just tons of make out, reason we haven't had sex, is because he's a virgin, and I’m not, and he's still nervous.. so I’m just wondering what kind of steps should i take for my/our first blowjob.. I am not comfortable using a condom, I’ll probably get lube just because it sounds gross spitting on his penis. I honestly just need a bit of advice on how my first one should be. Like what steps should he and I take..?

Answer

So you want to give your boyfriend his first blowjob and it will be your first blowjob too. That is awesome. I hope you both have a lot of fun.

I feel like giving head can be quite similar to making out. You are doing things with your mouth to explore your own sensations as well as your partner’s. The only difference is it’s his cock you are doing it with, not his mouth.

So I would advise you to approach it like making out. Just do it how you want - in a way that is enjoyable for you. Listen to his reactions (carefully, because he probably won’t be speaking) and let them guide you.

The basics of a blowjob - the steps you should both take - are these:

  1. His cock should be clean. Hopefully he has good hygiene in the first place and if you want to make it a surprise it hard to say wash first but yes, he should be clean.
  2. Get naked or naked enough. The first time I gave head there were no complaints but I’m pretty sure, looking back, the guys may have been uncomfortable. They probably didn’t care, but making sure his cock isn’t half trapped can make it more pleasant for him. Don’t just pull his cock out of his shorts leaving tight waste bands cramping things up. Get his shorts right down, below his buttocks. If possible.
  3. Start softly. Sucking and licking. Be very careful of teeth on his head. The skin is thin and teeth hurt. If you want to use lube, I use and recommend the body safe sliquid lube - plain or flavored, but I don’t think it’s necessary. Just lick your lips and start. Your own saliva will be enough - no spitting required. Only the part you are sucking needs to be wet. If there is too much saliva, letting it dribble down his cock is fine. Let it lubricate your hand.
  4. Start slow. Take your time. If you manage to get him to come, congratulations. If you don’t, don’t worry. It can take practice - for both of you. Making someone come from oral sex isn’t easy, but also coming from oral sex can be difficult too.

The important part is to have fun and stay safe. If you don’t use a condom for oral sex, at least be sure to use one for sex, if things go that far. The temptation to not use a condom can be great, but please stay safe.

Good luck!

 

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