Question

His reaction to my bj - is he just being polite? So I just turned 19 and I had never given head before but I met this 22 year old guy and I gave him 5 or so bjs over the course of the summer. He came in 2-5 minutes each time and I actually could suck like 4-5 inches or so while stroking the last 2 in my other hand but after he came he got super sleepy and didn't talk to me much about how well I did except for asking me how I felt if I liked it, if I was okay. Do you think he is just trying to be polite or is it not all that special? I want to be incredible at this.

Answer

So you gave your beau a few blowjobs, he came quite quickly and asked to make sure you are ok and checked if you enjoyed it afterward. Also, he seemed quite sleepy. This seems pretty normal to me so I don't think you have anything to worry about there.

Checking to see if you are ok and if you enjoyed it, to me, is the reaction of a man who cares about you.

That he got sleepy afterward is quite a normal post-orgasm reaction. Orgasm causes a bunch of chemicals to be released in our brains that make us feel happy, relaxed and also, sleepy.

2-5 minutes to orgasm, sounds like you have a fairly successful technique. Many questions I get here are on how to make a guy orgasm faster so 2-5 minutes sounds like success.

As to not giving you feedback afterwards, I think the idea of critiquing your blowjob style didn't even cross his mind as it could be construed as demeaning. If you are looking for feedback, look for it during the blowjob.

I understand that you want to be incredible at giving head and I think it is important to be good at giving head as part of being a great lover. My personal opinion is that "incredible" head though, is not for every blowjob. It's for special occasions. Did you read the blowjob guide - it's what I'm talking about there. So my advice on being incredible is to slow down. 2-5 minutes is perfect for normal blowjobs but I'm guessing you're using the "make him cum" technique right from the start. If there is a time when you feel like really treating your man, take your time, tease, vary your technique, build him up and let him calm back down and when he really does blow, it'll be that incredible head you were aiming for.

 

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