Question

What do I need to know for my first time giving a blowjob? I have a boyfriend and we have done stuff, last time we were together he gave me oral, and I want to return the favor, hopefully next time I see him. Only problem is, I haven't done it before, and I am really scared of doing it wrong, or choke when he comes. Do you have any advice for a first timer?

Answer

So you want to give your boyfriend a blowjob and you have never done it before. Don't worry. You are just like every other woman out there before she ever gave her first blowjob. Beyoncé gave her first blowjob once; Keira Knightley I'm sure; heck even Monica Lewinsky had to give her first blowjob once and I bet that all of them were nervous about it. And as perfect as these women may seem - I'm sure they have blowjob blunders to make you laugh till snot comes out your nose.

Anyway, advice - doing it wrong, if you are careful, you can't really do anything wrong. It'll all feel good. The main thing is don't bite him. Make sure it's your tongue and lips that are touching him, avoid teeth. I've written about theblowjob basics, so give that a read. (However, a lot of my blowjob guide wasn't written for first timers - it's more for long term partners who want to learn how to give a really amazing blowjob. For your first time, it's not stuff you need to worry about. Just make sure you are comfortable, he is comfortable and have some safe fun.)

I've answered similar questions before so also be sure to read about what steps to take for your first blowjobhe's older and it's your first blowjob - here's what to dohow to lose your fear of giving a blowjob and also how to give head for the first time even if you're worried.

Good luck and have fun.

 

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