Question

Are there instructional videos, preferable free, available on how to give a blow job and oral sex to my husband? As there is more to oral sex than just blowjobs. In my research enthusiasm ranks very high on the man receiving a great mind blowing blow job.

Answer

You are right that enthusiasm makes a blowjob great. If you aren't enthusiastic about sucking his cock then he's going to pick up on that. A blowjob is a very intimate act and he's not just getting off on the physical - it's also about you performing this sexual, intimate act for his pleasure in a loving way.

But be careful about the word enthusiasm. For me, that word includes a sense of hurried action. Your enthusiasm shouldn't mean doing it with any extra physical aggression, action or speed. It's more about showing your willingness to do it, your desire to do it.

Anyway, you asked about instructional videos.

I haven't been very active on my tumblr lately but for your question I'll find a few videos and put them up. I have two tumblrs - you can see a link to the main one (images only) at the top of this website (it's the t in the square). The second one is where you can see blowjob gifs and videos. (I have to warn you that both are 100% graphic adult content.)

You can learn a lot from watching blowjob videos but I am very reluctant to send you out into the world of googling blowjob videos as I have learnt, you will also find a lot (seriously, crap loads) of blowjob videos that are terrible models of what makes a blowjob something beautiful and what makes a beautiful blowjob. There's a lot of videos of guys behaving disgustingly towards their partners (or, the actresses) and worst of all, these videos show the women accepting this behavior.

If you start visiting porn sites for blowjob education, please be aware that often this content does not portray what a loving blowjob should be. It quite often also portrays the blowjob as the main sex act with intercourse a minor part and not a hint that there's a pussy there deserving some loving oral attention too.

So, have a look at my tumblr. If you search around the net, please keep in mind that many videos portray blowjobs as an act that reduces a woman's worth. This is not what a loving blowjob is about and you should try very hard not to let the wide dissemination of this type of blowjob video influence your perception of what makes an amazing blowjob.

 

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