Question

How do I start a blowjob? My boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob. It wouldn't be his first time getting one, but it would be my first time giving one. I need help knowing the steps on how to start???

Answer

The first time you give a blowjob is kind of like the first time you kiss - except maybe a first kiss is harder.

Starting a blowjob is kind of like getting in the water when you go swimming. Some people like to run and jump in, get that first shock out of the way. Some people like to walk in slowly, getting used to the feel of the water as it gradually envelopes them. Others like to splash themselves first to get their skin cool before getting in.

How you start your blowjob is really up to you and your boyfriend. Although, perhaps more up to you.

My personal opinion is that it is really important to be confident, be the one controlling the blowjob and make it something you enjoy. The latter point is important for yourself, but also seeing you enjoy giving him head will make the experience of getting a blowjob a good one for your partner.

But, starting the blowjob.

If you're a run and jump type of woman, just get your partner somewhere private, get in position, get his pants off and put the cock in your mouth.

If you're more likely to walk in slowly, you could start of making out, start feeling each other's bodies then when you're feeling right about it, open his pants, get his cock out and stroke him for a bit. Get used to how his cock looks and feels, then move down so you're able to get him in your mouth. With his cock sticking straight up in the air, kiss just below the tip (the sweet spot) then smile up at him and slowly open your mouth and let his cock in.

If you prefer a few splashes first, then once you've got his cock out in the open, give it a kiss. Give it another kiss, but open your lips so you leave a little saliva moisture on his cock. Kiss all over, use your tongue, then once your mouth is ready, take his cock into your mouth.

A few last tips - go slow. Don't try to take him in all at once. Go at your pace. If at any point you want to stop, stop. You're in control. Laugh. It's your first time so you'll probably be nervous but one of the things that shows confidence is being able to laugh when you make a mistake. Finally, don't worry about making him cum. If he does cum, that's nice but if he can't, that's normal too.

Have fun and enjoy. 

 

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