Question
How can I stop gagging from his ejaculation? I have a question about taking a load to the mouth. I find myself constantly gagging as the guy ejaculates no matter how deep I have the actual penis in my mouth, I always find that the sudden rush of cum causes me to gag which I find kind of awkward and embarrasing. Do you think this is a big deal to the receiver? And do you have any tips to overcome this issue? I have no issues with the actual smell or taste.
Answer
So you are comfortable with the taste and smell of your partner's cum, but the surge of it into your mouth makes you gag.
First, from the receivers point of view: I think the guy getting the blowjob is enjoying what you're doing and at that moment when you are gagging on the cum shooting into your mouth, he is suffering seizures of orgasmic pleasure. He's in happy town. A big deal, no.
That said, I think the act of swallowing a man's cum is important to men, more than most people realize. It's incredibly intimate even though there is no physical pleasure in it, there's an emotional response some (I suspect most) men have on seeing their cum swallowed that makes the whole blowjob experience more for them. When you gag on his cum, unless he get's some enjoyment out of your discomfort (a.k.a. he's a selfish asshole) then it will take something away from that accepting act of swallowing.
To overcome the issue where you gag as he fills your mouth, first, you need to find the actual trigger. I suspect, because gagging is a natural reflex that helps us avoid choking, that the way the cum in sitting in your mouth is triggering you gag. I suspect it's rolling to the back of your tongue before you are ready to swallow and that causes you to gag. Maybe he shoots there.
To avoid this, try tipping your head forward a little and assuming you are kneeling and he standing, this will point his cock more directly onto your tongue and not towards you tonsils. If you are trying to maintain eye contact, this will break eye contact but a moan of enjoyment as you tilt your head forward to take his load will still be sexy. Suck it all out of him then look back up with a smile.
I hope this helps you avoid that gag which even though we know there shouldn't be anything emabarrasing about a natural and unconcious bodily response, it still can be a little.
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