Question
What if I don't want him to cum in my mouth? What do I do when he cums then?
Answer
Whether you take his cum in your mouth is completely up to you! It's very important you know that and make it true for yourself.
The thing about men is that their penis and their cum is very important to them. Rejecting a man's cum can make him feel emotionally rejected. But you don't have to swallow it to show him you accept him. You don't even have to take it in your mouth.
The way I think about cum is I try to reverse the roles. I would never want him going down on me if my pussy tasted bad so I'm not going to go eat his cum if it tastes bad. At the same time, I can understand how a rejection might be hurtful because if he was going down on me, turned around and spat then told me it tasted gross, I'd be very hurt.
So, it's all about being kind, loving and even though you want to avoid his cum, still show you don't reject it - you need to show him you love it.
I think the best way is simply to be excited and show your pleasure at his orgasm. Watching an orgasm is a beautiful thing so even if you aren't feeling him cum by keeping him in your mouth, you can still enjoy the sight of him losing control. Enjoy watching him orgasm and ejaculate. If you want, take his cum on your body and enjoy it. Or have him lie on his back and watch him cum on his own belly then express how sexy it is watching him cum, seeing the cum surge out of his cock.
Obviously, you need to tell him to warn you when he's going to cum. That's easy enough to say. Just stay in control, don't be embarrassed about not wanting to taste his cum but still show him you love to see or feel his orgasm and make sure he feels no rejection in the way you approach his ejaculation.
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