Question
Where do all these hairs come from? When I give my boyfriend a blowjob, I always get little hairs in my mouth and it really turns me off. He does shave so where does it come from? I don't feel like asking him to wash his dick before I suck it since it seems like a mood killer. Help.
Answer
So you're sucking his cock and you're getting a bunch of hairs in your mouth. I don't think there's a woman who's given head who hasn't dealt with this issue before. And you're right - it's a turn off.
So where do those little hairs come from?
You mentioned he shaves. If he's completely smooth then you can be sure it's not a mouth full of pubic hair you're getting. But if he isn't completely smooth then it's a possibility it's just the normal shedding of a few pubes and you're sweeping them up with your tongue.
What I think it actually is though, is fluff. I think it's little stray fibers of cotton or polyester from his underwear. He shaves and so there's a bit of pubic hair stubble. This stubble is acting like a comb against his underwear and basically catching all the loose fibers and holding them until you suck them off his cock or balls.
It's pretty awful having all that in your mouth so here are the options:
- Change underwear
If he wears soft cotton underwear, he could switch to a silky type which is less likely to have those loose fibres. That or a sportier type - the elastic, nylon type which also would avoid the stray fiber issue. - A wet cloth
Some people keep a box of wet wipes next to their bed purely for sex prep or clean up. Alternatively, a damp face cloth will do the job admirably. Just give him a quick wipe down and he won't be such a hairy mouthful. - Time your blowjobs
It may seem less passionate but timing your blowjobs is important - in this case it means making sure there's always a shower happening prior to getting down. This way your mouth always only encounters clean genitals.
With the last point, you're trading off sexual spontaneity for practicality but if it means you are are enjoying the blowjob, it's worth it. As I like to say - never give head if you're not enjoying it.
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