Question
Is it normal to feel like throwing up during a blowjob? When giving my partner a blowjob, I constantly have to stop because I feel like gagging. I don't want him to feel like I am doing a bad job.
Answer
So, while you're giving your partner a blowjob, you have a constant feeling like you're going to vomit, and you want to know if this is normal.
I'll answer by saying that regardless of whether it's normal or not, is certainly unpleasant. And giving your partner a blowjob should be enjoyable. It may not be as enjoyable as receiving oral sex, but you shouldn't have to endure giving head.
If it's because you're trying to take his cock too deep in your mouth then that's an easy fix - just slow down a bit and take less in your mouth. Use your hand on the shaft (it can help to let saliva drool down or if your mouth to lubricate your hand) and just use your mouth, tongue, lips on the head.
Also sucking and licking up and down the shaft as well as over his ball sack will feel amazing for him without inducing the gag factor from having too much cock too deep in your mouth.
Lately I've been getting the feeling from reading blogs and other web based forms of communication that mens' approach to sex, including receiving a blowjob, is changing for the worse. In general, much more objectification of their partners and when it comes to blowjobs that can manifest as disregard for our comfort and thrusting into our mouths as if choking and gagging were a normal part of a blowjob. If this is the case, please assert your right to enjoy sex. Don't take it.
Back to taking it too deep, it might not seem deep but it can take a while to get used to having something as big as a penis in your mouth without gagging so give yourself time.
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