Question
Why did he act so weird after the blowjob? The other day I was gonna hook up with this guy that I've seen sometimes before. I gave him a blow job and he came in my mouth after about 2 minutes. After that he got really off with me, didn't wanna have sex or kiss or anything. This is really weird since he was the one who suggested we meet up... Was my blow job shit or was he just embarrassed from coming so quickly?
Answer
So you gave a guy a blowjob and it was your first time together and afterwards he was acting a bit strange and you want to know why.
You did offer a couple of suggestions. First, that he might have been snubbing you because your blowjob was terrible. I really don't think this was the case. If you gave a terrible blowjob, I don't think that would cause him to act strange, it would just (and I doubt even this would happen straight away) stop him coming back for another blowjob.
Your other possible reason was that you think that it might have been his embarrassment over coming in about 2 minutes. This is a more likely scenario. He might have had it in his mind that the sex would have gone longer and you both could have got some enjoyment out of it. Then suddenly he is coming and it's all over. Cue embarrassament.
However, rather than react in an embarrassed manner, he got a little stroppy and took it out on you. This is a short-coming of, I'm guessing, his youth. As people get older and gain some wisdom, we get better at handling uncomfortable situations, simply because we have experienced them and can draw from that experience.
I think also that the male after-orgasm effect might have come into play here. This isn't true for all guys but generally, after coming, a guy's interest in sex disappears. The problem is if you have no friendship to fall back on when his sexual attraction is extinguished, then it can get awkward. Again, as we get older, we can deal with these situations better but until we have lived through a certain situation a few times, we are likely to react poorly.
To sum up, I just want to say don't worry, it probably wasn't you or your blowjob, it was probably just a guy reacting poorly to an uncomfortable situation he's never been through before.
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