Question
My tongue hurts his penis! My boyfriend says my tongue papillae hurt him, when I give him a blowjob, what should I do? Thanks a lot!
Answer
So when you're giving your boyfriend a blowjob, your tongue feels a bit too rough on his sensitive penis and you'd like to know how to give him head without hurting him.
There are three main things that contribute to the physical sensation of a great blowjob. Of course, there is the mental side of it too, but that's not relevant for this question. Those three sensations are:
- Warmth
Your mouth feels great for him because, for one thing, it's warm. You've got this covered. - Moisture
This can be from lube if you like, but generally it's from saliva. This is potentially where things might be going wrong. If you don't have enough saliva to lubricate things, it can get a little rough. Which leads on to the last point. - Friction
I'll use this word to cover two thing. First, use your hand to provide the jacking or pumping motion he might like. Don't feel like you need to push your tongue hard against his cock. A solid grip is where the pressure should come from, not your mouth. The second thing is the slipping friction. Your hand generally just moves the skin of his penis up and down. The sliding of skin against skin is happening inside your mouth, and it should be lubricated with saliva. If not, it'll feel rough for him and may be why he complains that it hurts.
So, try to go slow, let the saliva build up and keep your tongue thick with saliva. Your mouth should be sucking gently and your hand should be where the slightly more aggressive stroking action is coming from.
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