Question
How can I practice giving a blowjob at home?
Answer
Part 1) Blowjob Practice
Well.. the best way to practice giving a blowjob at home is to ask your lover if you can practice on him. He would surely be gracious enough to let you!
Ok, but really, if your lover isn't at hand then the next best thing you could do would be to practice on a dildo. The thing is, what you learn from practicing with your lover is what he likes and where his sweet spots are and all the little things that make an amazing blowjob. However there will be some benefits to practicing with a dildo, such as the ability to keep your jaw open longer without the ache settling in, or the ability to take the dildo or his cock deeper into your mouth, or even into your throat. (See more about deepthroat practice below.)
Also you can practice on your fingers. Practicing on your fingers is all about learning what it might feel like for him when you are sucking or licking with your tongue in a certain way. See these blowjob tongue exercises for tongue strength and agility. Practicing on your fingers gives you a really good idea about what he is feeling on his cock and don't be surprised if you find yourself a little turned on!
Part 2) Deepthroat Practice
If you want to practice how to deepthroat then again you can practice with your lover, but you should also get a dildo so that you can have quick practice sessions when you want to without awakening the dragon, so to speak.
For deepthroat practice, it is easier to start with a slim, soft and flexible dildo. Another benefit of practicing with a dildo is that when you are finished, you can enjoy it for what it is really made for!
If you want to learn how to deepthroat, the first thing you need to know is that it takes time! Here is a quick guide on the steps you can expect in learning how to deepthroat:
- Learn about your gag reflex. Use your fingers or a dildo or his cock and see when you gag. Practice going to that point and learn how to subdue or ignore your gag reflex.
- Using your fingers, penetrate your throat by sliding them quickly down your tongue, keeping them pressed against your tongue the entire time.
- Practice with the dildo. Expect a lot of gagging.
- Finally you will just push the dildo into your throat and it will surprise you. It might feel a little uncomfortable after that but you have now deepthroated something.
- You will keep trying. You will find more difficulties but with practice you will be able to take the dildo or your lovers cock into your throat more easily, though it might only be for a moment and you may only be able to do it a few times before the gag feeling overwhelmes you.
- If you really want to succeed at this, you will keep practicing. You will find that instead of coming off the dildo/cock as soon as it enters your throat, you can hold it slightly longer.
- With more practice you will be able to hold it longer and longer in your throat as you gain more control over your gag reflex.
Expect all that to take a long time, up to several months or more. You will have to practice regularly otherwise you won't progress quickly. But if you keep at it you will become a skilled deepthroater and have your lover in awe at your new super powers.
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