Question
Hi, I've recently started dating this guy and he is older than I am, and I've never had a serious relationship. I want to know when it is the right time to give him a blowjob. When is it ok?? I've done it with other guys, it's just that we never really dated... So far we have been touching each other - mostly him touching me and I want to repay the favour... do I give him a blowjob or do you think he's going to just freak? Thanks again!
Answer
Finding the right time to give someone a blowjob for the first time in a relationship is really a matter of judgement. You will have to decide when the time is right for yourself, and make a judgement on if you think he is ready. However, as for him being ready, in most cases guys are pretty happy to get a blowjob and I don't think you have to worry about him freaking out unless sex is something you know he has strong feelings about (like if he is strongly opposed to sex before marriage).
Three things to look for, to help you decide if the time is right to give him a blowjob:
- Privacy - Are you alone and do you have a period of uninterrupted time together?
- Chemistry - Do you feel that you and he have that spark?
- Mood - Is the mood right between you at that time?
If you can tick these three questions off as yes, then it is a possible good time to give a blowjob.
Lastly, remember that in new relationships you don't know about someone's sexual history so always play it safe protect yourself. Read more about safe sex blowjobs.
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