Question
Is a blowjob a good present?
Answer
Most guys, most of the time, always appreciate a blowjob. And it makes sense - there are many reasons for them to love them. But as for giving a blowjob for a gift, my personal opinion is NO! It is not good to give a blowjob as a present. If it's his birthday then it's ok to spoil him with a super amazing blowjob as part of your day or week of birthday special treatment, but if you give gifts then that would be something separate to the spoiling.
Blowjobs and all forms of sex are something that are a regular part of your relationship as a sexually active couple. So these things that are part of your daily life shouldn't be given as a gift. If you are the person that tends to cook dinner every night, you wouldn't make an extra special dinner and say "Happy birthday - this dinner is your gift", it would just be part of the special treatment you give someone on their birthday. Likely you would give a gift and cook a nice dinner. A blowjob falls in the same category as cooking dinner. It is just part of the special treatment.
Giving birthday or Christmas gifts is tricky in relationships. Often we want to give each other gifts that are of similar monetary value. If you gave him an expensive watch and he gave you a CD, you might be upset - even if it was a CD you really wanted, because you bought him such an expensive gift and then he went stingy.
This expectation of giving gifts of equal monetary value leads to the main issue I have with giving a blowjob as a gift - it implies there is a monetary value to the blowjob (equal to the value of the gift he bought you). And even though you are giving him a blowjob out of love, it insidiously puts a price on that blowjob. It won't happen, but in my mind giving a blowjob as a gift follows to a blowjob in exchange for something which follows to a blowjob to pay for something and blowjobs for money is not where a blowjob should come from in a relationship setting.
Very hard to explain! But in short - give him a gift. From there, if you want to spoil him even more because it is his birthday or something, give him a nice blowjob as well. But never just a blowjob as a gift.
This is a tricky one and maybe there are a few different opinions... Share yours with a comment below!
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