Common Blowjob Complaints and Solutions

His penis smells! How can I give him a blowjob with a stinky penis?

• If you don't like the smell - don't think that getting him to wash with soap right before is an unreasonable request, or if it is your saliva that starts to smell after a while, try a mild mint or flavoured lubes to mask the smell.

I don't like the taste.

• If you don't like the taste - again, get him to wash before, or flavoured lubes, and if it is the come you don't like, just don't take it in your mouth - you don't have to! If you don't like the taste but still want to give a great blowjob, at least try not to be scared of his come. You don't have to eat it, but making faces of disgust isn't a turn on and won't will make him feel terrible.

I don't want him to come in my mouth.

• If you are worried he will come in your mouth without telling you - tell him, let him know you don't want come in your mouth and if he does come, decide on a place where he can finish.

A blowjob is so selfish.

• If you don't like it because it's just one way - make it reciprocal. Decide that oral sex will always be as a 69 where you both get the pleasure at the same time, or take turns and make sure you are both getting fair turns.

I don't like giving head unless I am already horny.

• If you only like it when you are horny - then tell him, and see if the whole game works better when he takes some time to warm you up first.

I'm worried I'm not good at giving a blowjob.

• If you are worried that you are bad at it - then talk to him and he will tell you it doesn't matter. And the fact is you can't get better without practice, and he would definitely rather you practice and get better than not. Plus, when you are practicing, he is getting head. No way he won't like that!

He's always asking for a blowjob and that makes me not want to.

• If you don't want to because he is always pushing and hinting for you to give him a blowjob - talk to him and explain how that makes you feel, and how it in fact makes you not want to do it. Let him know that he will get blowjobs when it feels good for you but you aren't there to service him whenever he has a hankerin' for head.

My jaw gets tired and sore if I give a blowjob.

• To me, this is like an un-fit person complaining they get puffed if they try running, or that their legs get sore (so that is why they can't run). If you are out of shape, it's not easy to get into shape, but it's better to get there than not be un-fit and slovenly.
  To get over the sore jaw issue, you need to practice more. Or you can try these jaw exercises that will help you keep your mouth wide open for longer before it starts to hurt.
  But this may also be because you are using your mouth too much. If you are a beginner or just don't give head very often, try doing it a little more regularly and your jaw will get used to being open for longer. But you don't have to just sit there bobbing up and down with his cock in your mouth for 15 minutes. That will start to hurt. Whenever you feel the twinge in your jaw, take a breather and just lick him for a bit. Spend a few minutes doing this. It will let your jaw relax and guys love to see you swirling your tongue all around the tip of their cocks or licking up and down the shaft. 

Even though this site is a guide to giving great head and isn't a relationship guide, in or out of a relationship sex should be a fun, safe and enjoyable experience for both partners. A blowjob should be given because you want to, not because you feel pressured to. Ok, back to the how to of giving great head.