Solutions to Common Complaints about Blowjobs

Complaints

 

Solutions

His penis smells! How can I give him a blowjob with a stinky penis?

    • If you don't like the smell - don't think that getting him to wash with soap right before is an unreasonable request, or if it is your saliva that starts to smell after a while, try a mild mint or flavoured lubes to mask the smell.

I don't like the taste.

    • If you don't like the taste - again, get him to wash before, or flavoured lubes, and if it is the come you don't like, just don't take it in your mouth - you don't have to! If you don't like the taste but still want to give a great blowjob, at least try not to be scared of his come. You don't have to eat it, but making faces of disgust isn't a turn on and won't will make him feel terrible.

I don't want him to come in my mouth.

    • If you are worried he will come in your mouth without telling you - tell him, let him know you don't want come in your mouth and if he does come, decide on a place where he can finish.

A blowjob is so selfish.

    • If you don't like it because it's just one way - make it reciprocal. Decide that oral sex will always be as a 69 where you both get the pleasure at the same time, or take turns and make sure you are both getting fair turns.

I don't like giving head unless I am already horny.

    • If you only like it when you are horny - then tell him, and see if the whole game works better when he takes some time to warm you up first.

I'm worried I'm not good at giving a blowjob.

    • If you are worried that you are bad at it - then talk to him and he will tell you it doesn't matter. And the fact is you can't get better without practice, and he would definitely rather you practice and get better than not. Plus, when you are practicing, he is getting head. No way he won't like that!

He's always asking for a blowjob and that makes me not want to.

    • If you don't want to because he is always pushing and hinting for you to give him a blowjob - talk to him and explain how that makes you feel, and how it in fact makes you not want to do it. Let him know that he will get blowjobs when it feels good for you but you aren't there to service him whenever he has a hankerin' for head.

My jaw gets tired and sore if I give a blowjob.

    • To me, this is like an un-fit person complaining they get puffed if they try running, or that their legs get sore (so that is why they can't run). If you are out of shape, it's not easy to get into shape, but it's better to get there than not be un-fit and slovenly.
      To get over the sore jaw issue, you need to practice more. Or you can try these jaw exercises that will help you keep your mouth wide open for longer before it starts to hurt.
      But this may also be because you are using your mouth too much. If you are a beginner or just don't give head very often, try doing it a little more regularly and your jaw will get used to being open for longer. But you don't have to just sit there bobbing up and down with his cock in your mouth for 15 minutes. That will start to hurt. Whenever you feel the twinge in your jaw, take a breather and just lick him for a bit. Spend a few minutes doing this. It will let your jaw relax and guys love to see you swirling your tongue all around the tip of their cocks or licking up and down the shaft. 

Even though this site is a guide to giving great head and isn't a relationship guide, in or out of a relationship sex should be a fun, safe and enjoyable experience for both partners. A blowjob should be given because you want to, not because you feel pressured to. Ok, back to the how to of giving great head.

What do you like or dislike about giving head?

To my fellow fellatrices! Here is your chance to share with guys everywhere what it is you like about giving head and what you don't like about it. Your answers will help those guys understand how it is for you to give a blowjob and hopefully make them a better blowjob recipient.

So please:

  • Share your pet peeves or your favourite foibles;
  • Your secret dislikes or the thing that you love to see/hear/feel;
  • What it is you wish guys would do and what you wish they wouldn't;
  • And what makes it easier or harder to give him a blowjob. 

Do not hold back in your comments - share with honesty. Your words may help many other women like you and your time is very much appreciated. Thank You!

Comments (7)

  • zytrasia

    I enjoy the warmth of the penis and then the cum down my throat and how his balls are always soo cold ;-)

  • Barry

    I enjoy the feeling of having a penis in my mouth...knowing that my lips and tongue can work pleasure. It is a powerful feeling. I really love working him to a rock-hard position and then deep throating him. Giving blowjobs is one of my greatest joys.

  • Barry

    This is a not so much of a foible as it is an embarrassing moment. I was deep-throating a guy who was very well-endowed. As he worked in and out of my throat...my throat was making a very loud slurping sound. I was sure that people outside the room could hear. It was so loud that the guy started laughing. After we were done, I left and found 2 girls standing in the hallway talking. When they saw me, they both smiled. My blushing must have given it away that I was the slurper because one of the girls said, "did you satisfy your thirst?" I was so embarrassed...I just giggled and said, "yummy."

  • legman

    Wife is untouchable at the art of fellatio. She recently told me about some of her first blowjobs and guys that helped make her a master. She is 48, I am 7 years her younger. These stories are a huge turn on.

  • Melissa

    I hate it cause it makes me gag a LOT &/or throw up. Plus the nasty taste

  • Melissa

    But I really want to get better & not gag/throw up. Want to give my husband a good blow job & be able to deep throat

  • pukeman

    I've always been pretty big down there so it's pretty common for girls to gag and even throw up on me, but this actually is a turn on for me although its hard to say why. I just had one girl barf up her entire dinner on my cock while I was cumming deep in her throat and the warmth and texture of it along with the .... "colorful" visual before my eyes... it just flipped a switch in me and I've liked it ever since. But needless to say I get my oral fix in the shower now... :)

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